Argument

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"Argument"

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One of the reason for argument is the misunderstanding. Some of us carrying the burden of being high in moral of ego. Without hesitation some of us making a judgement pasty on a situation the need more clarification to the topic that we need to explain. But most of us is depend to his/her thought without confirming it. Thoughts of angry, high temper base on the topics that we are argued. It was disgusting to people around, because sometimes even in a public places we are interacting to have bad conversation resulting to being not an educated person.

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Most of us join in or argument, are losing our calm behavior. How often do we get angry when we talk about what we say about what we're talking about or wrong?
So often a simple argument have created a fight or deeper misunderstanding, because of our high emotions bearing with us! How can we, avoid this type of dispute that often arises in the everyday life of a simple man or poor anywhere in the world? These things are always experienced primarily by those in an LDR or Long Distance Relationship. But for me trust and give understanding is the most the best way to avoid such things. Because a simple matter of misunderstanding grows if you do not pay attention to it.

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So before anyone else is caught up in the world we need to pay attention and resolve a kind of argument that is often the source of even more misunderstandings and to the end of repentance. What is the source of an argument? Many of these scenes come from a small misunderstanding of something in question. Even with a debate, the discussion of what is covered in the subject is producing a hot argument. And how can we avoid a hot argument? According to the study. To avoid and a hot argument is to talk about your feeling before you get angry and deal with it in a safe way to avoid misunderstanding. And also don’t raise your voice communicate with a calm and whispered to reduce the hot of anger while you are in the deep conversation.

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And also it is better to create a process for resolving the arguments or a problem without anger to make the conversation calm and everyone is motivate to response and discuss the argument in a nice way. Remember that on a high emotion of conversation the feeling and the attention will react the most impatient feelings. We know some other people while on their emotion like to argue because it gives them or bring them a feeling that he /she want to say to have power of gratification! Then it is nice to avoid that emotion its better not to react and being calm. Because if you react they started to process and start to have emotion and affect the lateral talks and probably not going to be a good arguments its start to have everyone physically and emotionally and the problem doesn’t get solved.

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It's tough to curb your anger. It's one of my weaknesses that I constantly have to struggle with. However, you are right. We should be more understanding of others in order avoid arguments.

Sometimes in our desire to resolve everything quickly, we tend to agree just for the sake of agreeing. That should not be the case because it leads to unresolved situations. We should be honest and open and really talk everything out.

Well said my friend.

I have to agree that we should take time to calm down and let things settle a bit before revisiting the issue.

Yes it really true, because last Wednesday I was arguing with my wife, and losing my temper. it was late to realized that i was hurting her.

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