WALK AWAY WHILE YOU STILL CAN!

Good evening friends,I read a post on @zizimena's blog here about a lady who was heart broken as her boyfriend for 3 years left her for another woman.

She knew the guy was cheating on her while in the relationship but she kept on hoping he would change.

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Now lots of we ladies make mistakes in relationship because we are so in love and we fail to look beyond that love and focus on things that are quite suistainable.

Yes he's tall,sexy, romantic,fair,dark,six packs etc....but then aside these physical features there are other factors to look out for.

Any relationship leading to marriage is serious a business and shouldn't just be for pleasure and hanging around.

You need to be very sure of what you want from a man,what other qualities does he have that will help you stick with him and not look elsewhere.

Aside that we all have our strengths and weaknesses....find out his weaknesses,are they things you can cope with and comfortably endure??

From @zizymena's story of the lady she knew this guy was having other affairs and she felt he would change that life someday and atlas she got hurt, imagine planning marriage with a man and at the end,the souvenirs supposed to be used for wedding is now used for another woman.

It's so heart breaking but some of this things could be avoided especially when the relationship is defined.

I have always known that men don't change overnight that easily,if you are dating a man who is a womanizer,who drinks and smokes,don't be enduring the relationship if you know that you can't endure it in marriage because he would still be doing same thing.

Walk out when you can to avoid being hurt,even guys that beats and flog the hell out of women,don't say he will repent when you get married.

It's a lie,it's only by the grace of God such happens and most times could take a long time, don't go too deep into what you can't bear, sweetheart walk out while you still can and be productive with your life.

I still believe there is "a right one" for everyone!!

P.s: Also posted on steemit by me!