How to Get a Girlfriend
Are you hoping to find a girl who you can be in a steady relationship with? This article will go over some of the things you can do that will help your chances with any girl.
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1- Meeting Girls
2-Help someone. It could be her, or it could be someone else in the room. Is she carrying something heavy? Say "let me help you with that" and carry it for her. Is someone short on cash? Lend them a few dollars so they can eat lunch. Hold the door open for the next person coming through, even if they haven't reached it yet. In other words, be a kind and generous person. Not only will it get her attention, but it will also make you feel good about yourself. Don't be fake and do nice things only when she's around, though. Chances are, she'll notice that there's a difference between how you treat her, and how you treat others. Help people all the time, in a wide variety of ways. She'll notice, and so will the people she knows, and on the occasion that you come up in a conversation, people will say "They're such a great person!" and this girl will start thinking "Yeah...they are, aren't they?"
3- Approach tons of girls on a consistent basis.
4- Avoid being afraid to fail. Remember, fear of rejection is extremely irrational. If you see a hot girl, go and talk to her. Convey her your intentions right away. Don't digress, no matter what, "Hi, you are cute and I came here to know who you really are." You are looking for a girlfriend, not a friend who is a 'girl'.
5- Avoid giving yourself time to make excuses. When you see a hot girl, don't make excuses like 'she's probably in a relationship', 'she is on her phone' or 'she is jogging', 'Man I look so bad'. Believe it that there is no valid excuse to not talk to her. At worst she would say 'no' and walk away. You have to try again and again to get good at this.
6- Keep having fun. This is really important. If you are not having fun while talking to a girl or while looking for her, you are probably taking it too seriously. But if you are having fun, you won't care about the potential rejection and would come out as cool and fun person.
7- Be yourself to the extreme. If you don't find something she says funny, don't laugh just because she is laughing. Don't try to be something you are not.
8- Network. The more people you meet, the bigger pool of people you'll have to choose from. Don't be picky about who you meet or how you meet him—the nice old man down the street may have a gorgeous granddaughter your age and the somewhat annoying girl from last night's party might have a friend who's perfect for you.
9-Take care of your physical appearance.
10- Practice genuinely complimenting girls. Challenge yourself to find something beautiful in any girl. It doesn't have to be something physical; it can be a cute gesture, an admirable trait, a talent or skill. Recognizing and expressing true appreciation for any and every girl will make you more attracted to girls and girls more attracted to you.