Four Steps to Stop Falling For the Wrong Guy

There is nothing worse than getting your heart broken again and again and again. If you want to break the pattern of attracting and falling for the wrong guy all the time, you need to read on about the four steps to break these vicious cycles ...

Step 1: Ask yourself this question, "Are you attracted to emotionally unavailable men?"

The truth is that some men are just emotionally unavailable. They don't want to settle down and fall in love with one woman. Life for them is a constant search for challenges and overcoming them. Their refusal to settle down is attractive for many women. Don't we all want to be the last woman that ends it all?

Step 2: If the answer is yes ...

You need to make a mental note that these unavailable men can't give you what you want. You also need to understand that by falling for them, you are denying yourself the exact thing you search for - long lasting love.

Step 3: Look deep inside of yourself and try to find other qualities in a man that you are attracted to.

Are you attracted to a man who has a great sense of humor? How about one who is loyal and caring? Once you figure out other qualities you are attracted to, make an effort to find men who have these qualities and who are also emotionally available.

Step 4: Refuse, refuse, and refuse ...

You need to refuse every temptation when you meet another man who is not emotionally available. Old habits die hard. However, if you start making an effort now, you can eventually break the cycle of having your heart broken and embark on a journey of finding true, long lasting love.