The Way You Hug Someone Reveals An Enormous Amount About Your Relationship
We all know that different personality types express themselves in different ways.
For example, your walking style can definitely reveal a lot about your personality.
Confident people may strut their way through life, while introverts may walk briskly with their heads down.
But what does it reveal about two people when their personalities are forced to physically collide — in a hug?
Happiness and well-being author Kulraj writes, “Hugging is, in fact, just an extended form of a fundamental human need: touch. An abundance of research has shown that skin-to-skin contact between a mother and newborn yields important physical and psychological benefits.” He continues that as we grow into adulthood, “the importance of touch does not diminish.”
Confident people may strut their way through life, while introverts may walk briskly with their heads down.
But what does it reveal about two people when their personalities are forced to physically collide — in a hug?
Happiness and well-being author Kulraj writes, “Hugging is, in fact, just an extended form of a fundamental human need: touch. An abundance of research has shown that skin-to-skin contact between a mother and newborn yields important physical and psychological benefits.” He continues that as we grow into adulthood, “the importance of touch does not diminish.”Because hugs and physical contact are so important to who we are as human beings, and because we are all so drastically different, it comes as no surprise that there are actually so many different types of hugs. So it makes total sense that each type of hug can reveal a lot about the relationship between the two huggers.
This exclusive look at hugs is extremely revealing. In fact, when I started paying attention to how I was hugging others, I was shocked by how accurate this was!
1). The Protector
The Protector is a hug that is all about a sense of security. The person behind wraps their arms around the waist of the person in front, providing stability and taking on a protective role.
This position shows a large amount of trust in the relationship and shows that taking care of one another is very important. “By covering your back, he’s conveying that he wants to shelter you,”
2). The Back Stroke
The Back Stroke is a hug that is all about reassurance. Each person rubs the back of the other person, reminding each other just how much they truly care.
This position is all about openness and vulnerability with one another. “The back is a very vulnerable part of the body. You can’t see your back, so being touched there is very startling,”
3). The Pat
The Pat is a hug that is all about friendship and camaraderie. Each person literally gives the other a pat on the back as a signal of comfort. There’s not really a sense of intimacy involved in this hug.
This position is not about romance or even closeness. It is more about kinship — the kind of relationship that is exactly fine staying where it is. “This is how men hug their buddies; it’s not romantic at all,”
4). The Slow Dance
The Slow Dance is all about romance, romance, and more romance. One partner wraps their arms around the partner’s waist, while the other wraps their around the neck, harkening back to a high school dance kind of love.
However, if you are still hugging this way years into a relationship, that certainly means the romance is still alive.
5). The Reach Around
The Reach Around is about two people who are truly partners in crime. One person puts a single arm around the other’s shoulder for a kind of half-hug.
This hug is all about two people that are better off attached at the hip than attached romantically.
6). The Deadlock
The Deadlock is a body-crushing hug that almost borders on a fear of letting go. In this hug, both people intertwine themselves as tightly as they possibly can, squeezing out every last drop of air separating them.
This position is about deep commitment and not wanting to be apart. Author Caroll Bryant writes, “Love should feel like a hand sewn quilt made by grandma, wrapping you up on a cold winter morning.”
By wrapping each other up in this way, you fear that letting the other person out of your embrace will somehow mean they will leave. You’d much rather stay with them right where you are.
7). The Flying Hug
The Flying Hug is a hug that is all about passion and lust. One partner straddles the other, either while sitting down or “flying” in mid-air.
Whether or not you also have a deeper connection, this position reveals that you constantly lust after one another physically.
8). The Pickpocket
The Pickpocket is a hug that is all about comfort and ease. In this hug, one or both people have their hands in the pockets of the other.
This position shows just how relaxed and comfortable your relationship is. You don’t have to work hard to make this partnership succeed.
Hope that was helpful
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