31 Test To Know True Love

THIS IS ANOTHER 10 TEST TO KNOW THE REAL STATE OF YOUR LOVE
TEST 4- Caring test- Does this person care about your life , academics, emotion, feeling, careers or all he/ she wanted is to have his /he way; how you feel about it notwithstanding; the persons is not in love with you. He wants sex despite the fact that you objected to it. She wants money even if it means you stealing it, it shows that the person does not care for you because true love cares, and considers.
TEST 5-Longevity test- How long do you think the relationship will last, is it till you find another person. True love is permanent while lust is “peck and go” Hit and run” do not be foolish, take to your heels.
TEST 6-Starting test-Infatuation starts fast, there is no such thing as love at first sight. Real love always start slowly it cannot be in another way, you have to know the person before you can truly love him/her LOVE IS NEVER IN HASTE.
TEST 7-Purity test- Does your relationship glorified God? Is it godly, if it does not, it is not love; it is of the Devil, it is lust, it is sin?
TEST 8- Divine relationship test- How far is your relationship with God; since you started this present relationship, check your prayer life, Bible study life, your commitment to the things of God, your hearing from God, do you feel the presence of God or you feel “dry?’. If that relationship has separated you from God it is not love it is lust, go out of it, before it destroy your life.
TEST 9- Interest test- How consistent is your interest? In infatuation and lust, your interest in each other blows hot and cold, the reason is that your interest grows so fast that the root are shallow and is based only on emotion which go up and down. For real love, your feeling are likely to be warm and tender instead of hot and cold, not the kind that is ready to kill the guy that he sees with his girl, true love is matured and courteous
TEST 10- Maturity test- How old are you? If you still a teenager you are not likely to be in love, you are only being infatuated. True love comes with maturity. So all those, “love affairs” in secondary schools are not of God because they are based on infatuation and lust, true love can only come from matured mind, unselfish and godly mind.
TEST 11-Effect test-Infatuation has a disorganizing effect upon your academics, life personality. It makes you less-efficient and less – responsible, your romantic feelings are in control and you walk around day dreaming. Whenever you see somebody that looks or talks like him or her, you lose your control. Whenever he is around nothing else matters.
TEST 12- Number test- How many people are you presently in love with? If it is more than one person hen you are being canal and lustful. True love can only be directed to only one person at a time, while infatuation and lust are polygamous in nature, they can be directed towards several people
TEST 13- Excitement test-Are you always excited to see the person you said you love or you are just tolerating him/her, love do not tolerate but celebrates.
TEST 14- Marriage test- Can you marry the person you said you love? Or you just see her as bed mate? Is that man ready to marry you, or he just want to fornicate with you and dump you? Ask him let the relationship be define.
TEST 15-Self control test- Do you always find it difficult whenever you are together? All you do is petting, necking, kissing endlessly and sexual intercourse. It means God is not in your relationship. Devil and flesh are the ones dictating the happening in it.