Steemit Engagement Challenge | S14W3 | Parent's Strict Behavior and Children's Mental Health"
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Hello and Aslam o Aakium to all Steemians. I hope you all are doing well and living wonderful lives. I wish you the best of luck on this amazing platform.
So let's start with our contest post. The topic of the contest is
🟦"Parents' Strict Behavior And Children's Mental Health."
This topic is so hot these days because we see many videos on social media on this issue. So let's start with it.
First of all, I would like to tell you that parents are the ones who love their children more than anyone else. Parents spend their money, time, and happiness, and they make a lot of sacrifices for their children. So if sometimes they get annoyed, there's no need to argue with them. Always try to give them as much respect as you can. Parents are like blessings, so don't take them for granted. They make a lot of sacrifices for their children.
🗣️What Are The Advantages And Disadvantages of Parent's Strict Behaviour?
There are so many advantages and disadvantages to parents' strict behavior.
Some of them I will discuss today. First, I will discuss the advantages. The biggest advantage of parents strict behavior is that they keep proper check and balance with their children. So children will think twice before doing any sin or doing any bad things. Strictness brings discipline, and discipline brings good character.
There are so many disadvantages to parents strict behaviour. Some of them are given below.
Due to their strict behaviour, children are horrified by their parents. They don't get along with their parents. They start hiding things from their parents at some point, which turns out to be a great loss for both children and parents. Sometimes children get angry, and they argue with their parents. So it creates a lot of a gap between children and parents.
Children starts hating their parents, and they form friendships with others, which acts like salt to wound, so strictness should be changed with love, respect, and guidance.
🗣️What Do You Feel If You Were At The Place Of Such Children Who Have To Face Strictness.
I would obviously feel bad and i would never be able to share anything with my parents. If i would feel strictness i would feel like a prisoner and would always think to move out of the house and go somewhere else where i would spend my life with happiness and independence.
🗣️As A Child What Do You Expect From Your Parents Regarding Thier Behavior
As a child, I expect from parents that they should start listening to their children.
They should try to understand my point of view. If I make any mistake, they don't scold me first, without knowing my intention. If I make any mistake that is immoral, then they try to teach me with love.
Strictness is also important, to some extent. Children will never get spoiled. If parents don't exercise any strictness, then children will get spoiled very easily. So both are important, side by side.
🗣️What Are The Negative Effects Of Emotional Blackmailing
Emotional blackmailing is a serious issue. In our surroundings, many people are getting emotionally blackmailed by the people who play with their feelings. Emotional blackmailing can cause serious problems. Some girls are getting emotional blackmail these days. Emotional blackmailing causes depression and anxiety, which, at the end, turn into suicidal thoughts and death.
Emotionally, blackmail victims need counselling, and it's our duty to help them and tell them the truth.
I would invite to my three friends to participate in this contest and those are:
@obito69
@hotstolen
@afzaalliaqat
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You have discussed some benefits of strict parenting. Sometimes parents have to be strict just to teach discipline. Gee it could be.
But I think you can teach children a lot by loving them and being friendly with them. I don't know that. My knowledge about this is very little.
Thank you so much friend for your participation in this engagement challenge. I totally agree with you that there can be different advantages and can be different disadvantages of the parents rude behaviour with their children and sometimes if parents are rude then it means that they want to maintain a proper check and balance between good and bad things in the life of their children but sometimes children don't understand feelings of their parents and they start to hate them which is a negative side.
You are absolutely right that due to overly strict behavior, children become afraid of their parents and do not share their feelings with them. Which sometimes takes a very dangerous form because children create their own world, hence children should also understand that parents never wish bad for them. You have expressed your thoughts very beautifully. May you get success in this competition.
Inshallah 💘
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¡Hola @zunnurain! 👋🌟
Gracias por participar en el Steemit Engagement Challenge y compartir tu perspectiva sobre el tema de "El Comportamiento Estricto de los Padres y la Salud Mental de los Niños". Es un tema relevante y has abordado tanto los aspectos positivos como los negativos del comportamiento estricto de los padres de manera equilibrada.
Es fundamental reconocer tanto las ventajas como las desventajas y buscar un equilibrio entre la disciplina y el entendimiento. También es positivo que hayas mencionado la importancia de escuchar a los niños y tratar de comprender su punto de vista.
Además, tu invitación a amigos para participar en el desafío es genial. ¡Esperamos ver más participaciones tuyas en futuros desafíos! ¡Sigue así! 🚀💖
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El chantaje lo veo como una mala acción de parte de algunos padres que seguro lo aplican porque no saben cómo lidiar con el niño pero es mejor crear un ambiente cariñoso de amor y de buena comunicación para que los hijos sean obedientes.
Cómo escribiste allí arriba en tu publicación hace falta un poco de rigurosidad pero bien aplicada de parte de los padres pensando siempre en el bien del hijo.
Éxitos amigo