I do not want to marry !, I'm tired of striped-nosed men! Men now just want lustfulness but doesn’t know to guide! I do not know the imam ..

Why do I need to get married? I have my own career. My life is safer, no need to stumble over children. I enjoy life now.

I'm afraid to get married, not ready, there will be a lot of commitment.

Can I be a good wife / husband? Married not to divorce.

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Perhaps we have heard the above statement in the form of expression of the hearts and minds of our friends or people who have felt the bitterness of life as a result of family background is not harmonious. Even those who are afraid and worried give a commitment in marriage.

in this Age, shows how many professional-looking people, luxury lives do not want to get married. Especially when those who have their own fixed income, they feel that there is no need for men / women to live.

Why Get Married?

The question above is the question of the tree, especially those who will marry, 'bercouple', and also those who do not want to marry either fear, worry, and other reasons. (Except those who have illnesses or malfunctions for couples such as HIV, AIDS, mice and leprosy, and those who have a bad attitude, do not want to be able to make a living for their spouse, want to abuse and revenge on their spouse ).

Marriage is actually to respond to human nature's appeal that has been approved by God. Humans have desires and wills especially in sexual issues. Islam has determined the way in which marriage is the only hosting solutions to meet these demands.

In this age, look, there are some of us who have a desire but are channeled on the path of God's wrath. Some refuse to marry but they can not contain the desire and stay away from defamation against men and women. He himself can not keep himself from bad things. Finally there are those who have come to adultery and plunged themselves into it. The children born out of wedlock, they were murdered, thrown away, and also defended.

Some even say they want to defend their adopted child. Unfortunately in Islam, adopted children are not allowed to inherit their property. In the old days, he still felt lonely and disheveled because the child who was defended since childhood was not a child of his own blood.

Marriage widens brotherhood and builds the principle of cooperation.

Before marriage - we would think to live for ourselves alone. Less responsible and maturity in life management. Praying alone, praying, laughter and crying are also alone.

Before marriage - there is not much knowledge available to make themselves a Muslim individual who can perform the duties of a more perfect caliph. We do not know the term husband and wife, parents and children. Nor do they know what to say about the family chapters such as talaq, khuluq, hadonah (child custody), aqiqah and so on. So by marriage it makes itself ready with knowledge to manage a family. A husband as a priest and a leader, wife as a friend and supporter to her husband in difficult times.

Wife will help her husband in daily affairs, eating his or her food, shelter and children. Husbands will be together in search of a halal provision, defending, protecting and preserving the honor of the wife.

With the halal route outlined by Islam, the area of ​​brotherhood will be wider. Know each other between fellow two families that have been united on this path. It will give birth to a new bond and love one another.

Look for halal channels, with marriages able to ensure the well-being of the community, spreading goodness, moral care and retention of human descent.

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Posted from my blog with SteemPress : http://zamifara.vornix.blog/2018/08/06/86/

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