TOGETHER WE CAN BUILD THAT EMPIRE

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Its been over a week I made a post on steem, I took a break and was working on my myself but am back now. While I was away, read a lot of news and happening within my country and there was one which taught my attention because it has been going on for years but people pay little attention to it.

As crazy as it may sound because there is not scientific proof to prove its real. The western world sees it as fiction but in an African society, this real. In a society like mine, where ladies don't believe in building or starting a life with a guy from the scratch, they always want the easy way out which is comfort and at the expense of achieving leaves a lot of broken heart along the line. This was a story of a girl who traveled to another city to meet a guy she met on Facebook, on arrival she got to discover the guy was stinking rich and someone selling an Oil couldn't be that rich, so it called for questioning but the guy always find a way to escape the question. The guy lounged her in an hotel and she didn't get to know the guys house and the shocking part was that the guy even refused to sleep with her. After some days, the guy said he was traveling and gave her enough money and ask her to leave when she wants. She was happy because she haven't found a gentle man like this. According to the story, while she was asleep at night. Someone came to wake her up and she just followed without asking a question. She saw herself in a shrine and saw other girls there. She was to be used for a ritual but when it got to her turn, the sorcerer said she has already been used already which means someone else has taken away her shine and described her like a living corpse and she was taken away little on the road in the middle of the night left to die but she was rescued by a trailer driver. She survived this and was able to tell the story.

This is one among other cases which was never reported cos the victims never saw the light, there are others who travels through the Sahara desert in search of greener pasture but gets sold off at Libya. Unknown to them that the person who sent for them is a human trafficker. There are just many bad things happening and people do just anything to get Rich and the consequences doesn't matter to them.

I wonder why some ladies finds it difficult to date a guy without money, for once I thought it was an African thing not until a Gold digging prank show done in the U.S then I got to understand it is a global thing and most ladies wants the fast money and stay with a man who is already made. Then I wonder why don't want to build an empire of their own or build with their man. When I see women like Oprah who had to struggle to get to where they are, then I wonder what they Oprah got that the other ladies who can't stand for themselves don't have. Determination is a truly a drive but they don't have it. When you look at the world richest men and even presidents both past and present. They are with women who stayed with them when they had nothing but now, I wonder what changed?
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To every ladies who wants to be like Oprah or Michelle Obama, they should be aware they did stick to their man in both in good and bad times and together they were able to build that empire which you are craving for. Start small and with determination and drive mixed with the right ideas fused together. Your reign will definitely come, never look down on anyone as a lesser man. The future is bright. Remain Loyal to your man

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I wish they can take your advice seriously. Most African are girls nowadays are very lazy but want to be with a guy with all the world's riches.

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