Life is what you make it

Young people which were all my friends stop being that when I decided to be an adult. I got married with only 18 and get my first child when I was only 19. Till then my husband was working on two posts to feed us and for the next 5 years, we were tenants in the rented apartments.
Finally, we settled down at our own place, three kids at hands and a very tight schedule.
My man still works double shifts a few times per week depending on the demand and I do a well-paid part-time job as a fitness coach.
Needless to say that I have a completely different psychological anatomy from other girls in my generation. I am 27 only but I have an experience of 72.
My friends think that when a woman gets married her life is over and the only thing is responsibility and obligation to her husband, children, and even the ever needy in-laws.
My life started when I get family and my own man, and in-laws know where the doors are if they forget where the limit is.
While other cool 'chicks' of my age were grabbing each other for the boyfriends living in envy and fear about their romances , I lived in harmony and love.
I faced the scrutiny of all kind and repression in so many ways, I can't even start to list all the incidents.
I know to recognize people who think that full-time mother and wife is no better but a domestic animal and prostitute.
It is so much easier for these people to label and defecate on others in order to save their own self from their own failure in life. Especially the losers with ruined marriages and relationship who are no good for anything.
Inexperienced kids of my age or younger telling me I lost a race with my career and life are joke for me - no brains, but all wishes and dreams. Snap out it! You will wake up one day hugging your dead pet cat living alone and being 50!
Well, I have the same low disrespectful opinion for all the little cynical losers who ever wanted to bring something in my notion - you don't count. Your opinion is invalid.
They don't need to respect me for what I am, because obviously, my well-paid job is not a job for these jerks , I am not a fitness coach, I am just an uneducated and dumb supported housewife.

Well, guess what - who cares! Life is what you make it - and I made one fine living for me.