Freestyle Writing _ What Will People Say?

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This is one statement that has continued to ruin people over time and this has continued unabated. Humans are usually one of Earth's creations with an active conscience level. Most of the time, this has affected their decision-making over personal matters.

What will people say has been a terrible underlying meditation with a devastating drawback towards tremendous achievement before us. We have lost so many great opportunities that would have been life-changing, but only if we had overcome this fruitless ideology.

No one is saying that putting the thoughts of others in what we want to do is bad, but we do not need to over-prioritise them over our personal achievements. Activities that we had anticipated would have been groundbreaking for us, but were only undermined by these thoughts.

I've had the opportunity to see situations where some people are still stranded because of these unnecessary thoughts. They find it difficult to make decisions because they fear what these people would say. The real question here is, what would they say that matters in our lives?

The people we are scared of or who supposedly will play a role in our decision-making are people who could barely handle their own affairs. People who will not come to our aid when in need or contribute to any welfare tailored towards our prosperity. The irony is that we give priority to unimportant fellows in our space.

How come we give attention and priority to the thoughts of other people who happen to have no value or consequence to us? People who have their rise and fall, we may not know. A set of individuals who seem to be living in an imaginary space. That set of people that we may not actually identify who they are and what they believe about us.

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Sometimes, we may not know when this crips into our subconscious but once it does, what we must do and owe our conscience is to be at the right path in our decision-making as well as resist these ugly thoughts. It does not mean well to us since it won't add value but rather kill and suppress our aspirations.

Key Highlights of this statement

What people will say generally takes into consideration the concerns of what others think and the imaginary societal perception of our actions. But we are poised to be faced with this as a take-home each time we are found wanting...

Delayed Judgment or Fear of Outcomes.

Continued suppression of our true identity and perception of what we believe things should be because of the superimposition of societal perception. Fear of receiving negative judgment is a driver to this thought and hence never allows us to freely make explicit and perfect judgment of ourselves. This is one way we kill our evergreen ambitions.

Underdeveloping through creativity and innovation.

The continued suppression of ideas that should ordinarily bring about premium creativity and innovation isn't seen or see the light of day. The fear of attacks and negative judgment pushes individuals into their shells and hence misses opportunities to develop and adopt innovation and creativity tailored towards prosperity.

Low Self-Esteem and Mental Retardness

Continuous worrying about what the societ would think of our actions each time.amd over time is a simpler way of mentally derailing from our natural state. This also brings about a state of not feeling adequate or enough to others out there. This is a self-inflicted mentalvand psychological trauma without any form reality in real sense.

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Free Communication and Relationship Strain

This predispose us into avoiding conversation that ordinarily should be fruitful to us just for the fear of staying afloat with our shallow predispositions. We want to be seen as stable in all fronts but limited to make deeper conversations that are groundbreaking because of criticism.

Conclusion

Let's endeavour to be intentional about this epidemic, with the guarantee that we will be responsible for our actions despite its outcome, void of any of these imaginary people. We cannot continue to deal with mental and low self-esteem, poor communication, and miss opportunities for this sake.

Thank you, friends, for reading

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