Changing my mind

Changing my approach - it’s been said “that it’s not what you do but who you are within what you do” - this is not an excuse to behave like an asshole though! But in all common sense self honesty - “what is your starting point?”

I noticed how over the last few weeks I have been allowing myself as fear and taking things personally to hold me back.

I went into a situation with a pre conceived idea of “things are going to be this way!” Based on old memories that are playing out within me. This situation was frought with challenges and I made things very difficult for myself.. until two days ago I took a breath and made the decision to not go into the situation with the same ‘mind set’ - I put myself into the shoes of others and I forgave myself in moments when I was aware of my self dishonesty.

The situation is more enjoyable and I am finding so far others are more cooperative, just goes to show how others pick up on our reactions and react accordingly! Even if it is very subtle, we create our environment, which kind of environment do you want ?

https://eqafe.com/p/understanding-autism-psychological-physical-disorders