What advice do you give to girls when they fall in love?

To all the past, present and future girls. Dear girl, what I want to tell you, it all comes from my heart.

You have to find something besides love that makes you stand strong on your feet. You have to find a way to make a living. It's not too late to think about it. I never think that education is important, genius is not a class, but, not a class, even the role can not run. You must take those floating thoughts and gradually transform them into clear thoughts and simple words. Neither flamboyant nor floating for long. You must know that it is not the content, the mind, the realm, the soul, the spirit, the intellect, that counts. Don't read the writings of women writers who share your path. Don't be trivial and groan. Don't just write what comes to mind. Don't flow to small sentimental and small touched. To take the heart to touch the grief, deep, thick. Be willing to sacrifice yourself. Look at the great books, they are famous, time washed and stay, for their reasons. To listen to the truly beautiful and powerful voices of this and past ages. You have to change. You don't stay on the same thing for too long. Girl, I want you to believe in warm, beautiful, trust, dignity, strong these old words. I don't want you decadent, empty, confused, spoil yourself, hurt others. I don't want you making a mess of yourself. Temper your feelings. Not just anyone can have it. Experiencing life is something else, and does not mean depravity and indulgence. Do not identify with those disguised cool and alternative. They are excuses for people who have nothing to do to let themselves do nothing. The real cool is inside. You have to be strong inside. To have let the passage of time, will not wear and yield faith. I don't say I love the world from an ivory tower. Is to know that the outside of the dark, dirty, ugly, but also say such words. To love, to live. Youth is so short, don't sigh old. Your youth has not yet begun. Haven't started running, how to shout tired? All you have to do now is gather your strength and get ready to run. You can stop and rest for a while, but don't squat down and look around. When you walk a road, remember not to look back. From time to time, ask yourself what you are doing. Sad and wronged, to cry. Wash your face after crying, pat your face and squeeze out a smile to yourself. Give yourself a great future and goals. Remember to look up at the sky often. Remember to look at your feet when you look at the sky. Anytime anyone asks you how many times you've been in love, the answer is two. Once he loved me and I didn't love him. Once I loved him and he didn't love me. Good love is always next time. Don't give the same man two chances to hurt you. Don't believe the vows in bed. Don't value virginity, but keep it pure. Don't be ashamed of desire, enjoy it, but never put up with men's insults and slights. Trust me, there are more men than there are three-legged frogs. Don't say "love" easily. Trust your instincts. Don't mess with other people's men unless you love him very, very much, and he is very, very worthy of love. Don't mess with a man who's looking for a woman who looks like his ex, his mother, his sister. Don't mess with prodigal sons, literary youths and middle-aged men. Don't mess with a man who's too pure. Don't be with someone who doesn't have a heart. Don't make mean really love. When a man humiliate himself to please you, don't be so moved. This cigarette burns on him, the next one might burn on you. See what a man's friends are like and pay attention to how his friends treat women. Also, never trust a man who isn't prepared to introduce you to his circle of friends. Insist that a man call you by your first name when he will only call you "baby". When a man stops looking for you, stop looking for him. Don't trust people who use means in relationships. Don't break up with bad words. Learn your lesson, but don't regret it. It's no use regretting. Don't do tear photos, burn letters, tear diary such a third-rate love TV series to do things. Believe in love. I believe that a good man still exists, unmarried, still looking for you in the vast crowd. Don't say "men don't have a good thing" to make people think you read a lot of people. Protect yourself. When you look in the mirror, be sure to smile. Promise me you will never be one of those women who carries a bag from one boyfriend's house to another in the middle of the night. Love material things, appropriately. Always know that the spirit is more important. More beautiful than those watches, brands, fashion, is you. I like my parents, but I have my own ideas. Don't follow blindly. Ask yourself how you feel about everything. Speak up when you have an idea. Know the basic rules and common sense of the world. Listen to good music, good movies and good paintings. Art in love, but not yourself in art. Don't look down on the working people. Don't be ashamed of labor. The soil is not dirty and the sweat does not smell bad. Respect