Most People Lose to The Word-- WAIT

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I lost my youth, I thought that youth could last for many years, I did not think it is a parabola, I have not enjoyed the beauty of youth, then slipped to the edge of the 30-year-old. At the age of 20, I feel that I have countless ideas, all of them are good enough to be admired by people. But the more I grow up, the less I share my ideas, because I know it is easy to say but hard to do it.

A few days ago, a friend of mine called me and complained: "I'm tired of the boss's bad temper." Work for so many years makes me see how the company operates; I wish to start a small business. ”

I said, "If you figured it out, then do it."

He said, "but I'm 31 years old, and I have two kids at home!" In case of anything, I can not act like a young man and start over! Maybe I'll wait until my two kids grow up. ”

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When people meet the goal that needs to pay, the first thing they think of is excuse instead of courage.

In fact, I believe that most people want to do something when they are young, but in the end, most of them choose comfort.

Too many people are used to waiting. Rest under the shade of the tree too long will make you forgot why you started.

I used to have this kind of idea, wait until I have the skill, then I only start my own business. But found out that the idea was a hoax wrapped in a sugar shell, and I was blinded by the kindness of this comfort. When I was waiting, that state of expectation never come but lost the momentum of progress over time. Recently, the company is developing a new app for users that provide knowledge on disease prevention. The app needs to have the content of lectures from the famous doctors in the major hospitals for users to learn.

But our team has never done this before, have no experience, not a professional, not to mention there are tons of audio, that needed to cut it into a small fragment, the developers started to worry.

But the director says that it's okay, we can ask help from the whole company. The Director invited the CEO to attend a small meeting. The director, after indicating the purpose of the meeting, put all the audio list on the PPT, said the company employees could form a group, 2-3 person a group, following the steps on the PPT, responsible for a course audio cutting. The completed group will be rewarded, and the award will be given the group within the next three months, and all the income can be divided equally.

In this way, dozens of audio were split.

A man of action will never wait for an opportunity to act, but to act immediately, even if it is difficult, even if the outcome may be imperfect, but that is better than doing nothing. If you do nothing and only make plan for the details of the road, overthink, then you might not even start, because what you have in your mind most probably are the difficulties you will face, let alone we can never predict what will happen in the future.

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At the age of 20, I always felt that 40 years old is quite far, but in a blink of an eye, I'm living in the middle. Stumbling around make me understand, why some people's life at the age of more than 20 will "stopped", many people want to lose weight when young, want to read, want to travel, want to do things but eventually failed to achieve or lose persistence. After day by day accumulation, make you feel like "I can’t do anything". At this middle age, some people are the sum of disappointment, nothing like what you imagine when you are 20-year-old! Because of standing in the eaves for too long, the years of wind and frost, blurred the future of the appearance.

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There is a 22k argument in Taiwan. 22K refers to the salary how much young people who just enter the social work can get. Young Taiwanese feel that the pay is too less. But this is not the point, 22K has another deeper meaning--"How many days are there in your life?" According to the average age of survival, women are 82 years old and men are 76 years old. A newly graduated college student is about 22 years old, and after graduation, left about 60 years, equal to 21,900 days. Add a leap year, every four years plus one day, 60 can add 15 days, 21900+15 still less than 22k. Every day after that, one day will be drawn on the box on this piece of A4 paper. "If you are afraid of 22K of salary, in fact, this 22K is more frightening." Count your own life, see how much days left. And the next 10 years, where will you be?

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I always feel that if a bird does not want to be trapped in a cage is not related to how much feather on the wings. Some people's hearts are the most desperate prisons in the world. That is the prison in which they imprisoned themselves, not by violence, but they walk in by themselves, locked the door, and flung their keys out of the iron bar. No one in the world know that he was imprisoned in prison.

Of course, whenever he makes up his mind, he can walk out because the prison was in his own heart. But if he refused , he is letting his heart becoming hard like a stone. This is why some people does not satisfy with their life. because they were in a secluded prison.

Perhaps you will be afraid of late, afraid of disappointment or loss. Or you would say:

"I'm 28 years old, and I'm a spinster, and no one wants to marry me."

“I've got kids, and I can't go through this. Maybe work for a bit first”

"Hate my work, maybe just endure it, at least I have a job, The risk is too big if change job now!"

"I always wanted to blog, but people said I need to join when I was young, am I too old for this?”

I always had the desire to be free, to be a "free man", to write freely, or to draw freely. I also regretted that "why I did not start earlier, but it is not too late to start now."

So, you say, "It's too late!" 

Late?

No, It's not late!”


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