TO ALL PARENTS ...

If the couple does not love each other intensely,
The love he has for his children is love, of course!
but not of the great and the good; in this case
each emotionally stretches their arm.
Remember that the arm starts very close to the heart,
and if everyone does it, they can break it and then you'll have
a son with a broken heart in two halves:
Mom has one piece and the other dad took it.
A divided son is someone with a broken heart,
because to divide is to break.

Do not make the grave mistake of loving children more
that your partner, to be more mother or father than wife or husband.
The only way to be good parents is to be good husbands,
because the children love each other intensely, loving the couple deeply.

What I shared with you, the author is Ricardo Bulmez. When I read it, I thought you were right.
Many times people do not think about the responsibility of having a child with a person, so much so that they end up having a broken-hearted child as Ricardo Bulmez says, of course, I am very clear that there are couples who after a while The best they can do is separate.

In my case my parents separated when I was 15 years old and at the beginning it hurt too much and I felt very confused, with the passing of the years and with the maturity that I was acquiring I realized that the best thing that my mom could do was to separate herself from my dad, at first I felt heartbroken then I gained the experience how to live with separated parents without feeling my heart broken but it was not easy at all. As I am sure that for my mother it was not easy to make the decision to separate from my father because there were children involved. I respect both women and men who assume in a good way the responsibility of having an upbringing with the father or mother of their child even though they are separated and I respect much more those couples that struggle to maintain a good relationship; who continue to remember how much they loved their partner long before having children.