WHEN YOU ARE OBSESSED WITH SOMEONE AND CALL IT "LOVE"
Before I start, let me ask these few questions
Are you the type that doesn't ever want to see your partner having face-to-face conversation with the opposite sex?
Are you the type that expresses discomfort if your partner receives calls or text messages from the opposite sex?
Do you always snoop into your partner's phone just to accuse him or her of cheating?
Do you go monitoring your partner's whereabout for no good reason?
Are you the type who threatens your partner with fire and brimstone if he or she ever cheats on you?
I can go on and on to give different instances that point out obsession, and the truth is that many people are subconsciously stuck in this type of relationship which seems like boundage.
There is a difference between love and obsession even though a lot of people use the two without knowing what they stand for
Love is peaceful, gentle, considerate, selfless, understanding and harmless while obsession is the exact opposite. An obsessed person can destroys things if she can't get what he or she desires while a person in love will learn how to let go. An obsessed person may go violent when what they have is slipping out of their hands.
The most important in life is learn how to learn how to let go. When you do this, you will always find it easier to get over someone and move on with your life.
People should learn to avoid having an affair with an obsessed partner because they have the propensity to carry out evil. This is because obsession goes along with anger.
In conclusion, if you see a part of doing one of the things listed above then it shows you're not in love but in obsession.
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