How to Understand Women Better - Learn the Significance of Body Language

How important is body language when trying to seduce someone? Is it more important than looks? While some people may say that they have 'good' body language and are 'getting' a person easily, I beg to differ. In this article I want to explain the importance of body language in seduction. After all, it must be remembered that what people say about us can often be compared with what they do.


It must also be remembered that what actions one performs in front of others can often belittle him/her in others' eyes. As such, it is not very easy for a bachelor student to convey his thoughts and ideas across to another person, while doing so. However, it is not rocket science, that needs extremely well-developed faculties.

The body language of a person is usually quite simple. For instance, if you are talking to a stranger you can very well tell them your name. Similarly, when you are talking to a friend or a family member you can tell them your name and what you are doing. The way you move, the choice of words you use, your posture and the whole set of things will all give you an idea as to how you are feeling at the moment.

As for the gestures, you can give these gestures freely as long as they do not put your partner off. This is where a little bit of subtlety is required. While saying 'I love you', make sure you do not actually point at her with your finger. If you are in a conversation with a stranger, and you suddenly start giving her your finger, this will definitely put him off. Instead, he will think that you are inviting him over to have some fun and you are just trying to give him instructions with no intention of going any further.

It is also necessary to understand that it is the entire body language of the person that is important. While watching TV or reading a book, try to pay attention to the way the other person is moving about and the way he/she is sitting down. Try to figure out what kind of body language the other person is using and try to replicate it whenever possible. This way you can start learning the basics of talking to a girl better. Remember that you need to speak like a man if you want to learn how to understand women.

The other thing that is really significant is the way in which you breathe when you are talking to a girl. It has been observed that if a girl has a good posture, then she will exude confidence. The reason for this is that when a girl breathes slowly she will look at the skies and also give out signals to her brain. Therefore, if you want to learn how to understand women better you should learn to breathe in a slow, deep manner and also hold your body in a manner which shows that you are positive and confident about the subject on which you are talking.

Another thing that is really significant is the hand position. The girl's hands are placed either at the back or the side of her body depending on whether she is single or married. If she is married then she would place her hands either at the side or across her stomach whereas, if she is single, she might just reach out her hand and show her belly button. So, if you want to understand the body language of a girl, pay special attention to the type of hand position she is holding and convey the message properly.


There are many more things that you can learn about the body language of a woman and how to convey to her in an effective way. However, the most important thing you should remember is to never be afraid of asking for her number. When you see her at a party or a social gathering, do not think twice before asking her for her number. Just as you do not hesitate to call up a girl you like or want to seduce, you should also do the same whenever a girl approaches you and tries to get your contact information such as her mobile number, email address or home address. In fact, it is even better if you could find out her real name and you can definitely ask her out on a date.