INTRODUCTION

Good evening my fellow steemians @steem4nigeria, Been here is always a pleasure and excitement but my special regards goes to @steem4nigeria community for organising such an amazing contest for fellow steemians to share their ideas and experience to fellow steemians that are married and to those who are yet to get married so that it can help them sustain a happy marriage life.

In a marriage,one of the tools that help the growth of a marriage is TRUST. Trust here is one of the main tools that help build a marriage home in the way that without trust they will be doubt ,and doubting your partner will lead to quarrels and misunderstanding.

For a successful marriage home the two people coming together as one family need to have this attributes in their life "UNDERSTANDING". Understanding here is a very powerful tools that contribute to a successful marry life ,in tge way that if you understand your partner in decisions he or she's making they won't be problems.

Thirdly in a successful marriage home the husband must ensure that he leads his family to the way of salvations by making sure that every church activities that he takes his family to the church to learn the word of God which will realy the growth of the family.

Communication is also an important tools that helps in building up a marriage to a standard, they're alots of ways yo help improve communication in a marriage

• Paying attentively to your partner on what he or she is saying before putting mouth ,is one of the key that help build up communication in a marriage.

• Both the husband and the wife should always try to give their partner attentions not always claiming too busy at the office

• As for the wife you should always try every possible best to check up on your husband while he's at the work place mostly on phone calls

• For a better communication the couple shoukf try not to hide their feelings in the way that on each side whether the wife of the husbands whenever you are wrong by your spouse approach them in a good manner that what he or she did that you didn't like it.

• The couples should try to create boundaries between their selves taking note of what each other like and don't like.

• The Couples should always try to ask questions on what he or she don't understand , expecially when the husband is bringing out new rules and decisions in the house the wife should try and ask questions on areas she don't understand.

With the above guidelines of mind it will realky help to enhance a healthy and strong communication in the house

In a marriage trust is one of the essential tools that enhances an healthy and happily marriage life in the way that if the wife or the husband keep doubting their partner it will lead to conflicts. Trust here helps each spouse to standby themselves no matter the angles they find themselves .

In every aspect of life trust is always needed as well as it's needed in the marriage homes. Trust is a thing that is harder to build because you must know the person you working with in and out before trust he or she ,at the same time trust is that thing that it's easily broken but ever it's broken it's harder to build again.

I may not be a married man but I understabd the values and impacts trust can build in a marriage home even in a relationship with friends. With trust you can be willing to die for the person or even do more for the person . So trust is an essential tools that help in the growth of every relationship not even in marriage but also on every relationship you find yourself with a person,it can friendship,parent to children,Managers to workers etc.

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They're various way to get rides of conflicts in the marriage homes so i will be giving some guidelines on how to controls conflicts in a mariage

• Both couples should avoids talks from outsiders or even from other family relatives on how to handles their homes

• In the home when one person is on high temper the other one shouldn't follow and be high.

• Whenever you know you've done something wrong to your spouse always endeavor to apologize

• Always let go of grudges ,workout to ur spouse whenever she has offend you and he or she is not aware of it

• The husband in particular should try and be satisfy with his wife as well as the wife

• The husband to ensures to provide for the house in terms,feeding, clothing, shelters and feedingd even with other necessary needs and want of the house

• They should endeavor to let go of doubt.

Distances between spouses can be a problem depending on your partner, maybe its because of work can make the husband to be far a way from his family and this can reduce his attentions to his wife and this can makes his wife to start thinking otherwise which is actually a big problem to the growth of the family.

For the cultures differences ,i don't think it can cause any problems in family because before you guys get marry,you guys would have get to know more about each other expecially for the wife you'll get to know the kind of food cooked at ur husband side abd apart from food you'll get to know about your husband culture.

CONCLUSION

It was really an amazing to help build the growth of marriage life but most importantly to enhance an happily marry life trust is the key yo it.

I will us thid opportunity yo invite some of my felloe steemians to participate on this contest;@preshy01,@law1223,@jeph01,@tripsy

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