You can not solve problems if you do not admit they exist.

in #selfhelp8 years ago

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PREDICTION

Your brain is continually making predictions. Whatever action you undertake, your brain pre-processes it to calculate its possible consequences according to all the patterns or models that it has assimilated. Therefore, the more patterns, models or experiences you have lived, the more intelligent you will be or your predictions will be more precise. In order to increase your number of experiences you must open your mind and face new situations. Excessive routine is the enemy of intelligence.

Get used to being aware of your predictions in order to assess the accuracy of these.

Make predictions in the short, medium and long term. When it indicates long term, it refers to one year, five or twenty years based on your current parameters.

Get used to the uncertainty of our lives, generate or create surprises. By increasing your experiences, your predictability in life will improve.

OVERGENERALIZATION

As we indicated before, the more experiences, the more patterns you will have, but you do not immediately believe patterns, if you do you will be closing yourself to new experiences, before you try all the combinations in your own flesh. Steve is known for trying absolutely everything in his own flesh. In certain tests, you will want to self-sabotage.

ACCEPTANCE

Once you admit a truth, for example your bad physical condition or your bad work or the little time you have, make a long-term prediction under that premise and value it. If you accept what you expect or objectives, are you willing to continue like this? If the answer is affirmative, you no longer have the right to complain because you are not putting means to change, simply accept it or put means to change. Do you accept your current job? What do you plan to do to change this situation?

Why is it hard for us to accept the truth?

Social conditioning: if everyone does, I am already justified or it should not be bad for me or I do not have to question it.
False beliefs: society has created behavior patterns that look like the right ones but it does not have to be them in all aspects. Before it was considered correct to study a career and find a good job in a multinational, is that still the case?

Addictions: when you are addicted to something, and it does not have to be to drugs, tobacco, etc., it can be to procrastinate, to certain behaviors, create confusion.
SELF APPRAISAL

In order to correct routines and attitudes in your daily life, you must self-evaluate in several fields:

  • Habits and daily routines: listening, letting others speak, not interrupting, bad manners, etc.

  • Work: have I been productive today? What added values ​​have I contributed?

  • Health: how many cigars have I smoked today? Have I been to the gym?
    Education: how many books have I read?

  • Social life: have I met new people? Do I belong to a group?

  • ¨Family: have I been interested in my parents, brothers?
    Emotions

  • Contribution: have I collaborated with any group? Have I helped someone without expecting something in return?

  • Spirituality: have I meditated every day? Have I dedicated time to introspection?

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”Excessive routine is the enemy of intelligence” .... Your a fucking genius mate, so unbelievably true

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In our modern world and style of life we are accustomed to tackle and solve problem through our mind, i.e., analysis of the problem, assessment of possible solutions and predictions.
While this approach brings results in some areas, generally it is a poor method to solve problems simply because the mind does not know, and can not know, what lies behind and beyond the sensed reality. The mind is able to only focus on framework 1. For example, 10 years ago crypto currencies existed in framework 2, did the mind foresee it? Of course not.
Bottom line, in my opinion, use your mind for simple tasks and daily routine issues. For life changing decisions harness the trust, intuition, and soul level assistance.

It seems a hard Taskmaster to hold oneself to the process of the article above. Natural action seems to employ a person's abilities that emerge from their makeup and experience. It's a case of solving a problem with one's head instead of one's heart. To see reality in the moment, have the complete experience without second guessing and judgment, and to flow in the Soul's freedom, yes that makes sense smiles.

The best approach, I'd say, is a mind - heart combination.
And this issue requires and article of itself :)

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