No One is Coming
I use to be one of those people who would fantasize about winning the lottery or becoming famous or someone dying and leaving me their fortune. This is something that a lot of us do. Everyone has had that conversation with themselves at least once in their life. If you haven’t you are lying. But the truth is most of us will never win the lottery. We just fantasize about the idea of someone or something saving us from our everyday lives. Some of us are under the mindset that we are owed something. We think that we are supposed to get help and the people in our lives are indebted to us.
When no one shows up, when you need them or not in the way you need them. Its human nature we act out. We get bitter and negative. We begin to blame everyone around us for our problems. Our mindset changes and we begin a downward spiral into a very nasty person. You become someone no one wants to be around, you have a chip on your shoulder and you are mad at the world. You start to resent people and by virtue of that action you begin to continue to bring bad situations and circumstances towards you. That’s the equal action isn’t it, what you give out comes right back to you?
It took me a while. Quite a while to realize that I am responsible for myself and anything that happens in my life good or bad it’s up to me to deal with it. I am in charge of my destiny and if I can just change my mindset to see that I really will never win the lottery and no one is going to leave me anything. I asked myself instead, what would I do if I didn’t win the lottery? Winning the lottery would not change my mindset; I would still be the same person. It wouldn’t help me be better a person. I think this a very important lesson for everyone to learn. The real truth is no one is coming to rescue you. You have to make the decision to rescue yourself. The moment you accept that truth is when you will begin to take responsibility for your actions. You will begin to take charge of your life and that’s when your live will begin to change. This is when you will grow as a person. It all starts and ends with you.
Today's challenge: Stop Playing the Blame Game
Being a Human Being we have to fantasize and try our luck. But we must accept the realities of life as well.
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Beautiful contrast and light! Thank you for the nice sharing :)
Thanks for the nice words!
Я не перестаю уделяться Вашим познаниям. Вам бы пора открывать свой кабинет психологической помощи. Это конечно шутка, но как показывает практика, когда помогаешь кому-то, тем самым - помогаешь себе, так что задумайтесь:) Если подытожить - ВСЕ В НАШИХ РУКАХ!!!
Ну я ж говорю, знаний много - толку мало) Хотя если кому-то помогу, то может и действительно самой полегчает) Спасибо!!
Hi my dear! Every line in your post talk the truth, really sometimes when we get so much problems, and we can’t handle them, we put the blame on the others peoples, but it’s not good, we have to take our responsibility of reaction .
Thank you so much! I'm very glad to see you on my blog. I have no doubt that you understand life. You are a wise and kind person!
Good post, I used to think about it too much, I believed that my happiness depended on others or money... But I've been enjoy too much my life just as it is lately, and It feels very good! There is nothing better than the satisfaction of getting your own achievements by yourself!!
I'm glad to hear such words from you! Good luck to you!
I realised I was responsible for my own life after getting really ill and almost dying. It made me look at life differently and stop blaming other for things happening in my life and if I wasn’t happy with it I had the choice to change it. Mindset has a huge thing to do with happiness not money, but I’ll take a lottery win if it happens to fall in my lap. But that’s not going to stop me from working on some decent back up plans.
I know what you're talking about. Health problems made me think differently. It changed me. Thank you for telling me this! I wish you good health!
Thank you and you too :-)
This nice photography i like it your photography thanks for sharing this post best of luck..
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Most welcome..
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