TWO HELPING HANDS IS BETTER THAN ONE
So i was with my friends today, when ladies sit together, you should know what they are discussing,MEN
And a friend of mine was saying that she loves her boyfriend, but she can never take him out on a date, infact when they go out on a date, she don't even have to spend a naira, she was of the opinion that men are suppose to be the one spending on a lady not the other way around and the rest were seriously supporting her that they cannot pay on their date with their boyfriend, they cannot get him too expensive gifts.
Relationship is all about helping each other. I see no big deal in paying when you both are out on a date as a lady, yes, society believes that a man should cater for his woman, but not witstanding, the lady can sometimes be sweet and helpful.
Paying on a date does not mean your man is less capable or you are cheap, its just a means of reciprocating your love.
Apart from the fact that some women are of the opinion that they cannot pay, some women even go further that they cannot take their men out,is there a big deal there?
You can just decide to suprise him one day by taking him on a date, it does not make you less cheap if you decides to sponsor the date.
Some women gives their lovers sorry as gifts and expect to get heaven in return. Even though the men do not speak out, they are noticing it. You cannot give your lover boxers and expect iphone 8 in return. Some guys might not say a word about it, but trust me they are noticing.
I surprised my guy last val by taking him out, he was so shocked and happy,he never expected it, even though he has money more than me, and that particular day he was fully loaded, but i could see the joy in his eyes, i could tell he was happy and surprised. Ladies you too can do the same, it doesnt have to be everytime but at least one a while, he doesnt have to give you a gift before you return yours, you dont have to wait until he tells you to cook before you cook.
Now am not saying you should turn to a slave for any man or you should spend all your savings on a man, all am saying is a little surprise will be good. Supporting your partner is something that keeps a relationship going, dont let your boyfriend see you as someone that is always asking but never giving.
Everything in love should be done mutually, you give, i give even though guys should be the one giving more but dont sit and watch your guy do all, try and assist in one way or the other
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Couldn't agree more @switmag. This is very powerful. I've been single for a while now, but i think it's time to have fun in this life thing..
My dear,trust me you are going to enjoy it,but make sure you find the right person
Much love playa
Switmag switmag, you are definitely right. Two helping hands are better than one. I definitely love your view. It is indeed right. Women should not leave men to be in charge of the financial and romantic aspect of the relationship.
Women should also try to do something. Nice one dear
Yea,you are definately right,thanks for reading