Steemit Engagement Challenge Week #3 || Defend The Statements || By @suzybest || 20% payout to @pak-charity.

It is a wonderful pleasure to be here again this week to bring out points of the current contest which i know will help many to understand what to do and the way forward to do it.

However, I will be speaking about "You will stay happier if you are unmarried" and "Money is more important than love", please i will explain in detail below.

You will stay happier if you are unmarried.

The statement above is a very critical one, in the sense that it is contradicting. Everybody want to get married especially for the young girls, but we have never taken time to study those who are already in and they are wishing they never did! This is because of the challenges faced in marriage.

Many couples today seeks for divorce letter because of the numerous problems faced in the marriage. Some of this problems might be:

1. Lake of fruitfulness (child bearing)
2. Incompatibility of both partners
3. Sickness
4. Lack of cash etc.

All of the above are challenges that will make you to safe your self and stay happier if you are unmarried.

I want you to know that marriage was instituted by God and they is no institution like it. This is because you have accepted to faced the above challenges right from the altar that you will will be in the marriage for better/ for worse.

This statement has greater forces behind it and because of this, if you are not a praying christian/ Moslem, the negative statement at the altar will start manifesting in the marriage.

I will be defending the statement with the story below:

They was a young man who was working, had a car and was equally building his house which was at a roofing stage. one day he decided to get married and prayed to have a better wife that will help him stayed happier in life! But he never knew that he was looking for a very big problem to himself. Remember, we are looking at " You will stay happier if you are unmarried".

Immediately he got married, his wife began to have series of health challenges which made her husband to loose his work. This was as a result of carrying her wife from one treatment place to another and could not meet up with his duties at working place.

At this state, there were no more cash to take care of his wife health so the young man decided to sell his car. But at this point the problem was still increasing up to the point when she fell down and got miscarriage which the doctor confirms that the falling has affected her womb that she can never conceived again.

As if that wasn't enough she got blind and the husband was crying both day and night! At this point he was satisfied, even when her wife can not give him a single child, still very sick and now blind, the man was still very patience with her not until when his family began to being him more pains that he should forget about his wife and move on!

But he did not adhered to this instructions rather he took the wife to one of his friends place to manage and stay away from his family members problems. Off all this challenges which this man has faced, if you were in his shoes, what could you have done?

At this point, there were no help coming from any where! So one day he went out to hustle and his phone ranked, he was told by a neighbor that his wife was pregnant after staying with her barren for over years.

Now it was 9 months which she ought to give birth but labour never met her until eleventh months when her husband left for one spiritual Church and she was delivered.

All this is because of the forces behind the alter. This woman gave birth to Twins (boy and girl). Now the devil went on to make sure that she doesn't have blood in her system and at the end she gave up the ghosts.

The husband lost everything since he got married and there were no single day of being happy in the marriage and this is the reason you will stay happier if you are unmarried. This will lead me to discuss the second point as seen below.

Money is more important than love.

Nowadays many persons placed more value in morning than love. This is because without money, there is no love.

If you are in love with a girl and you are wishing to get married to her when you don't have the money, it can never workout! Whenever you go around her and said "I love you", the kind of eyes she will looked at you! Yourself will know that something is wrong.

A young girl/wife will tell you that i won't eat love! At this point she will begin to tell you how her friends husbands are buying cloths, shoes, bags, smartphone and even gives them good money to make their hair, and you are here talking of love.

Because she has been complaining of money and you have not given here, she will move on with another man. At this point, you will see that Money is more important than love.

There is a saying that say after God is Money! I have come to realize that the statement is true because when a young man is poor, he might loose his wife for another man who has the cash to give to her for her up keep.

By this time she will not be taking your calls anymore, simply because she has found someone who can cater for her. Please as a man, don't ever think poor because you will get the greatest shock of your life.

Conclusion

We have seen the first story how it went when the young man got married and how he was when he was single. These are the major reasons why many persons never wanted to get married in order to stay happy.

However, you should never have a poor mindset by thinking that your wife will be satisfied with you when you don't have money. As i man you need to think rich and do something to enable you take care of the pressing need of the family.

At this point, you can see that money is more important than love.

Thank you for your time.