Overcoming fear

Hello all steemian friends

This is my participation in :-

Steemit Engagement Challenge S18 W3 | Overcoming fear // Overcoming fear by @cotina in Latin Community

Every person has to face some fear or phobia in his life, and these fears and phobias are found more in low income group or middle income group people.

What is your biggest fear in life?

This question looks a bit different but as I wrote above, we low income group people are surrounded by some doubt or fear throughout our life.

In my own case, it is different. Actually, I was born in a simple family. My father was a high government officer but at that time, due to his low income and more responsibilities, he could not give us the comforts and luxuries. So It was my dream to fulfiil all this in my future life.

Then I myself joined the government service and I started earning money for myself and for the comforts of my family. And gradually I collected all the comforts and luxuries. But I always had the same fear in my mind that whether these comforts and luxuries will remain with my family throughout my life and even after me.

Represent your greatest fear in a literal or abstract way in an artistic expression or photograph (show step by step)

In the beginning, I was a junior accountant in a government department and there was not much salary, so to give happiness to my family, I sometimes did coal business, sometimes medicine business, sometimes share buying and selling. And in these works, sometimes I made profit and sometimes big losses.

But I did not give up and continued my job and business. But I always had this fear inside me that I might incur loss in my business, I might lose my job, I might lose all my savings. And this happened not once but many times, but my morale always inspired me to forget these losses and move forward again.

Do you have any phobia?

Phobia is also a kind of feeling of unwanted, unseen, unexpected loss that is developing in you. And I always had this phobia that if I do this, I will suffer a loss.

And to tell you the truth, I used to see similar things at night due to my phobia, like I am climbing a long straight staircase and the stairs are going very high, but after going very high I fell down from those stairs and then my sleep would break. But I understood that it is a knot in my mind which I always see in the form of dreams.

How do you motivate yourself to overcome fear?

Finally when I understood this thing properly that nothing is going to happen by being afraid or worrying. Whatever happens, only then we will see it or find its solution, and anyway, profit or loss is not in the hands of any person.

Karma and a little luck also contribute to it. After understanding this, I threw away the fear and worries from my mind and heart, and surrendered myself to the situation. Now I only live in the present, I do not worry about tomorrow. And I try to do only my work with hard work and full dedication.

I also want to invite here :

@haidee @naka05 @rosselena @metti And @leudi

Thanks for reading my post .

Your friend .