Homosexuality 同性之爱

善男信女们，免不了七情六欲，上苍创造了人类，男女搭配，繁衍下代。最完美的莫过于郎才女貌因爱结合。爱本是多巴胺作用下的一种本能反应，它的刺激使人与人之间产生好感，彼此对眼，从而喜欢，随后深爱。这种特殊的爱包括两种：异性和同性。

异性之爱，众所周知，不足为奇。同性之爱，寥寥可数，寡闻少见！男男成双，女女成对，很多人无法理解无法认可无法接受。这冒天下之大不韪的结合违反着伦理道德，违反了自然发展规律，是可耻且龌龊的！

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然而，不然，爱情本来就无界限可言，也无准则之谈，任何的感情都值得尊重，同性无错，他们只是对和自己性别相同的人产生了恋慕之情。

著名台湾主持人蔡康永（出柜导师）曾时声泪俱下地说“我唯一能够做的就是向爸爸妈妈证明我们不是妖怪”，我无法感同身受地体会这句话之后的巨大压力，只能从悲恸的哭泣中明了他遭受了不少流言蜚语。世人鄙视的眼神，指点的动作，无情的嘲笑，或许他是孤寂的，或许他曾自我怀疑、自我否定、自我崩溃，自我安慰，自我肯定，直到正视真实的自我。

《生活大爆炸》的“谢耳朵”吉姆*帕森，算是幸运的，影视剧大获全胜，事业风生水起，斩获艾美奖“最佳喜剧男演员”奖后，与交往三年的同性爱人步入殿堂，举行浪漫的婚礼。结局的美好不代表过程的顺利，历程的艰辛只有备受煎熬的当事人最有发言权。

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当今社会，同性之爱，普遍却不主流，人们口中偶尔碰出的“出柜”“搞基”“同性恋”多多少少都带有色彩成分。或是轻蔑，或是讥讽，我们的社会或多或少无法接受同性恋者，因为根深蒂固的传宗接代思想是原则，是准则，是守则。

对于同性的爱情，个人不反对，也不支持，只能说是会欣然接受，不歧视，不蔑视，善意对待，给予尊重！如同看待正常人一般。

他和他，她和她，那种类似爱情的东西，也同样可以海枯石烂，亦可以天涯海角。

只要你想只要我有，同样也适合同性之爱！

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最后申明：我不是同性恋！

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Homosexuality is the romantic or sexual attraction or behavior among members of the same sex. In the modern society, they suffer from the social norms of pressure, such as family, marriage, love and sex roles.Besides, they also suffer from the misunderstanding of the crowd, prejudice and hatred.Their feeling and life can not get social support. Gay bashing is rare in modern China. The authorities do not actively promote gay issues in China. Although there is no law against homosexuality or same-sex acts between consenting adults, neither are there laws requiring people to accept individuals who engage in gay acts, and there are also no gay organizations in China. It is believed that the Chinese policy towards the gay issue remains the "Three Nos": no approval, no disapproval, and no promotion. In fact, no body knows whom he will love when he was born , of course includes the sexuality. They were just told and teached they can only love the opposite sex person. No matter you love boy or girl, the same sex or different sex, it’s nature. No one have the right to command your choice or deny your love. "love" is very valuable,and we should be the equal point of view, understanding of "love" is everyone has the right to pursue, regardless of homosexual or heterosexual.True love doesn't rightly or wrongly. Both gay people, is normal people, their feelings also worthy of respect, also need to eulogize. Our society should be more forgiving. We should take the most common, ordinary attitude towards them.Comprehend and accept it,so we can not discriminate them.Because they are also have their own emotion and make contribution to the society. Of course, homosexuality also should pay attention to prevent the spread of AIDS. Now I just want to say : everything that exists is rewarding and blessing for them.Of course, I'm not a gay.Thank you！
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