Our family's bedtime routine is a sweet ending to our day. We give hugs and kisses, say our prayers, and tuck the kiddos into bed. But sometimes there are unexpected surprises.

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Did she just say that?

As I was preparing to leave her room, my Lil Pumpkin says, "See ya later, sucker!"

I am not sure if my jaw dropped, my eyes popped, or if I had a smirk on my face. All I know is that I was taken off guard. What just happened?

In true detective form, I started asking some questions:

• Where did you learn that?
• Do you know what that means?
• Who else have you said this to?

Lil Pumpkin's face changed a bit. She is always full of spunk, but she knew something was not quite right.

Then in a sweet voice, as if she was asking a question, she said, "See ya later, cookie? See ya later, cake?" It all clicked. When she said sucker, she meant lollipop.

I wasn't mad, but I wanted to make sure she understood what she had said. Words are important!

Final Thoughts

What we say and how we say it has a deep impact on the people we communicate with on a daily basis. Kids often times spout things out. But honestly, so do adults. This was a great reminder for me to choose my words wisely and have a proper understanding of the words I use.

As I have reflected on this, I am reminded to ...

• Understand the context of my conversation - example: suckers are not always lollipops
• Listen first and speak second.
• Not use words when I do not fully understand the meaning.
• Show grace to people when they make mistakes​ because I make them too.

I want to hear from you. What is your best advice for improving communication?

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@SumatraNate