On Making Life Changing Decisions

in #philippines8 years ago (edited)

Have you ever seen yourself being stucked in the same old situation for years? When you thought you are happy and willing to stay and fight for it? Then one day you will just get tired of the same old routine, because you are only feeling the pressure of sacrifices rather than the pleasure of the happiness you made, the happiness that you thought would be your world, the happiness that made you forget all of the people who are just watching over you waiting for you to give up because you are in a no win situation.

Whenever you are caught in this kind of challenge, and you cannot decide what's best for you, take a break, breathe and stop thinking about yourself. Think about the people around you. What are they thinking about you now? What would your parents want your life to be? Are they happy with your current situation? If not and you are the only one left happy, then quit because it's called "selfishness".

This pertains not only about relationships but also other aspects of life such as career path, financial freedom, etc.

I had a fair share of that and I no longer want to get into details, as for me those were years full of immaturity, what's important is I made the best decision I have ever made in my life, that definitely made me the best version of myself... to marry my ever loving husband.

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I am happy God save you from the wrong relationship :)

ang babaw lang talaga ng luha ko...
ako lang ba ang unang sentence pa lang nangingilid na ang luha gang sa di na natuloy ang pagbabasa kasi lumabo na ang paningin kasi tuluyan ng bumagsak ang mga luha sa aking mata...? 😭

nakow! need this, relate.. decision decision decision hahaha

Sometimes a relationship become lengthy just because of familiarity. Thanks for sharing this here and glad that you had your wake up call that made a complete turn around in your life.

Imagine yourself being married to the wrong guy; it will be a tedious process. Getting a lawyer will be expensive, filing an annulment would have to be a two way agreement-it's just tiresome. This is what my Mom experienced. She's now 62 years old and lo and behold, she only realized now how wrong the relationship she has with my Dad. At that age for crying out loud, she still had a heartbreak.

Thus, I am happy as early as 9 years you had your realization. CONGRATULATIONS, you have found your true love.

Couldn't agree more, sissy! I was just contemplating last night. Much love <3

sooner or later, the right one will come your way sis.

Exactly sissy, I started at the young age too sis, maybe I'm one a lucky girl who has a lucky boy. And I hope that we will be together until our death hahaha.

I'm happy for you sis that you found your greatest love.

very well said. thanks for sharing

So happy for you sis :-)

thank you sissy

I’m happy you got the courage and found the man that you deserve. All women should be reminded that we deserve the best.

yes, sometimes we dont see who the best person is but they will just eventually come into our lives

very well said @sugarrainbow. I wish you all the happiness in life :)

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