Women's sex drive

 

Sitting on the playground and consider commenting on May Wismanns blog post. Must admit that her naive approach to sex drive (ONLY seen from a woman's point of view) provokes me a bit. On the other hand, what do I get out of it? Other than 1000 mad women who do not understand the message anyway.  

The woman's libido decreases after infatuation phase, while the man's sex drive continues as a steam locomotive. Will even say that it increases.  

Basically, we are going to chase you around again and again and solve your challenges here and there, before we are "allowed" to have sex with you. It is also here, that the woman starts talking about all her worries and not least her attitudes to her "oh so lovely boyfriend - which she now need to change."  

It is here, that she slowly begins on her unconscious womantricks, and quietly turnaround his personality. And Now the man needs to meet all possible requirements before she "bother having sex with him" - WTF?  

Everyone can probably figure out, that this is where the challenges of keeping your sex life startes - and trust me, it's not the man that's the problem.  

When we "mistakenly" starts "judging" you for not wanting to have sex, then hell begins - for real. 

As MayWismann says in her blog: "The accusations is poison in a relationship."  It may be true. But then dont start the problem, I think.

Continue to have sex after the first stages in a relationship. How hard can it be?  

May writes: "Most people find that sexual desire in the infatuation stage is higher than in general. This feels great, because they match each other's sex drive. But it can also give a tremendous disappointment when everyday life occurs, and they have to get back to "normal level".  

Wellll yes, you are absolutely right dear May, but then the woman has to gear up. You write as if both genders are guilty?  

I would say that 90% is due to the woman's focus (after the infatuation phase) back to "normal activities". And, not least, her latest trend "career". The woman's eternal quest for "I can have it all."  

Add now we need to hear woman whining about that they cannot find a real man - and men are such pigs. Well, maybe you should get your hand out of your pocket, and looking at why your previous relationship went wrong. Could it have something to do with your missing sex drive?  

Well. It's all just thoughts. Considering nevertheless posting a blog when I come home. We ́ll see, I think.