WORRY LESS WEDNESDAY! WLW — EPISDODE 13 with @itoroarchibong
Hello Steemians!
I present to you the 13th episode of WLW — Worry Less Wednesday Show!
Yes! We have done it.. We have sailed on the ship of so many problems and have offered solutions to life threatening issues, emotional break down, some related financial cases, family problems and problems beyond physicality.
It has not been easy but we have done it.
Let's see what we handled last week:
- The colleague who refused engagement because of her father's decision on tribal differences and later decides to come in at the wrong time.
- The girl who is scared of jumping into marriage with a man she hasn't had sex with before nor seen him naked.
- The confused student who has been seeing her elder sister's Ex boyfriend.
This week we have these issues on ground!
WLW1
Hello, I'm a student and I have a serious relationship issue. My boyfriend is always over protective. Sometimes I feel like he is my dad in another form. Every single step I make is questioned by him. Even the air I breathe now makes him suspicious of me cheating.
I'm tired of all these, we are just students and he is always insisting I front the relationship on social media. On his birthday he was angry that I didn't write enough words to quantify the love I had for him. My family members are on facebook and I have a limit to how I can ever hype the relationship on social media.
Recently, he sleeps at my place every night. He shares a two bedroom flat with his elder cousin and keeps saying that whenever I come there I usually engage in discussion with his cousin and forget him.
I feel like a married woman already. Please how do I call for a space without making him feel like I'm breaking up. I just need a little distance in the relationship. He is becoming over attached. Please add this on your Woreyless wednesday Show and give me feed back. Thanks!
WLW2
Itoro, I hope this my problem is OK for you because you said we should not bring in financial and political problems. I just need advice. I am a student in University of Uyo and I sell chinchin and other hand made snacks. I actually put them in a polyethene bag and bring them to school. Before and after classes, I move from table to table, class room to classroom marketing my product.
I don't usually have much sales. I don't know what to do. What ideas could you possibly recommend for me to take? I need to keep my business booming and so I can make enough money to see myself through school.
I need business ideas and marketing strategies to get customers in school. I'm just totally short of ideas now. Please I'll be waiting for feedback. Thanks.
WLW3
Itoro Archibong! Good morning. I heard your Voice Note from my younger sister's phone and decided to come to you. Please keep me extremely anonymous. Please very anonymous. Thanks.
I have been having sex with my best friend's brother. I know it's awkward or might not be but I kinda feel it was right keeping it secret from my best friend because she knows me to be seeing someone else as at then. Infact I was having sex with someone else.
I'm pregnant for her brother and I know the baby is his because I've stayed away from sex with others since my last menstruation. The brother said I should keep the child and he then told her about it.
_She came to me screaming that she is gonna tell him I've been sleeping around. But I stopped already before my last menstruation because I decided to start up a serious relationship for real and focus on one man.-
She said she is gonna take our chat details to him to prove her claims.
I don't know what to do. I'm three months in and don't wanna be rejected by her brother because this would lead to marriage possibly but I know she can in one or two ways convince him against me. How do I treat this problem?
What If he decides to reject me? I'm so devastated and weak. I need help! I'm equally scared of abortion on the third month!
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This is really impressive ...
Nice one Dear