Most of the unfulfilled dreams are lost halfway through
There is a sentence in "Murphy's Law": "People who often leave after waiting for the bus for too long,
The bus came just as soon as I left. "
Many people’s dreams come true when they feel the most difficult, immediately can’t hold on, and are ready to give up.
So when we have not had time to realize our dreams, we might as well grit our teeth and hold on. Maybe the turning point will happen at the moment we give up.
We are all on the road of pursuing our dreams, knowing ourselves from frustration again and again, and losing our way in the blows over and over again.
Anyone who has studied painting must know that in the process of learning painting, most people will encounter a bottleneck period: I originally thought that there was progress every day, but suddenly one day, I was confused and couldn't paint anymore and didn't know how to paint. ........
And this time is often the most important time. Once we break through this bottleneck period, there will be rapid progress; if we cannot break through, we may stop there or give up eventually.
There are many "bottleneck" situations around us. Whether in study or work, it seems that there are times: in the process of realizing dreams, there will always be a long or short period that is boring and helpless. , When I feel like I'm doing nothing, wondering if I should go on.
Some people think that they have no ability to realize their dreams at this time, and choose to give up, leaving all the so-called initial dreams in their sad memories.
Those who we envy, who can live the life they want, do the work they like, have everything they like, and can realize their dreams, are not because they have any extraordinary talents, but because they did not give up halfway. I just persisted in the most difficult time.
Once we encounter bottlenecks and setbacks, we start to look around and feel restless, and give ourselves a high-sounding reason to say, "Dreams hit the hard reality and shattered." "We have to feed our family to talk about dreams." .......
Just admit it directly, we just can't stick to it.
Once the strength of persistence collapses, we will have self-doubt. After entangled in the hesitation, we begin to excuse ourselves, find a reason that everyone can agree with, and let ourselves "get out". In the end, the dream is not realized, and the reality is not reconciled, just like a heart always hanging in the air.
So when we encounter difficulties and setbacks and feel that the path we have chosen is not easy to follow, and want to give up, we might as well let go of those long and long talks, and take a step forward with our feet on the ground and gritted teeth, just a small step. Dreams are not as far away as we thought. Sometimes we are just one step away from our dreams.
If the road is not easy to follow, then go slower. No matter how slow we are, we are moving towards our dreams. Go slowly, work hard, don't give up lightly, try if you choose, one day we will reach the other side of success.
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