I find it is so easy to just simply be who I am in all aspects of what I do. And I had to get to a point where I would start to forget or stop trying to do it the way others would rather have me do. I had to find out who I am and why I tick.

My colors were never the same as any others & often I would rebel against that & I still do at times.

I see everyone is changing so quickly & having to adopt to a new way of living in their own source of patterns. I too am changing rapidly in this new Earth and stumble once in a while but realize very quickly the temptation or the emotion etc.. in the new earth compared to the old earth. At least I am getting around and finding my way thru and helping others do the same in my own way.

I will continue to learn and do what I love to do - and that is to share information with others. My comma broke at a convention in Mexico so please accept that I do not use a comma ha ha ha

-Kelly Ann ( Handle: smospider )

I found these exact words on Facebook Page Sacred Dreams which I ONLY know that it brought more beauty to the life I have chosen to live in the high mountains away from society (for now).

Self identity is so important to our ego and our ego will defend the information and actions that our ego identifies with. Our ego is a part of our own mind that constantly tries to justify and maintain its sense of self. Our ego attaches itself to the information and concepts we adopt in life, and if anyone or anything challenges those ideals we will feel turbulence and cognitive dissonance. Our willingness to adopt new ideals and patterns helps our ego to become more flexible, and don't worry the more you practice allowing your ego to let go and adjust to new information the easier it will become. Sometimes we try and get other people to identify with the same information that we identify with just because subconsciously we are looking for a scenario to justify our ego. Trying to get another to accept and embody that same information that you identify with is just a ploy the ego takes to make itself feel more powerful and solid.

Our higher selves know that each and every path is righteous and time will heal all wounds, and to remain patient with those who choose other paths that you do not choose. Our higher awareness is at peace with other people's lives and choices because we can unconditionally love in all situations and in all people. To allow all people to live and make their own choices so they may have their own experience that is the true way to evolve. The ego tries to control and manipulate others for its own self validation. The higher self holds space and allows others to grow freely without personal attachment to how, when, what, where, and why. The ego projects, compares, labels, and confuses while the higher self embraces, loves, unconditionally supports, and understands. The ego will try to course correct and control someone else's experience in life due to a limited perspective of right or wrong. The higher self accepts and allows one to experience their own life in their own personal way.