Why silence in the relationship is actually useful
For some people, silence is awkward. They can not help but say nothing, especially when it comes to their intimate partner. The silence at home tensures them, even causing irritation and quarrels.
Silence generates boredom in some people, casts doubt on the relationship and affection of the partner.
Silence, however, should not bother you. It has its useful sides. In a long-term relationship is even obligatory. It is normal at the beginning that each partner strives to keep up the conversation because you are still familiar with it and it would be terribly awkward to keep silent. Then this is a problem.
But at a later and dormant stage of the relationship silence is not only normal, it is both useful and necessary. See why.
It shows a level of tranquility between you
Silence and silence in the relationship take place when both partners feel well in their company without talking. There are times when both of them need to stay alone with themselves and there is nothing worrying about it.
You can really relax
The coziness that obviously gives you the link makes you do not strain in thinking what fun thing to say or what to impress your partner because there is no need for such a poster. You are accustomed to the peace of mind. Enjoy it.
Quiet treatment is not superfluous
It is not always advisable to speak aloud everything you think. Saving some things is important to the relationship. Even when you are angry at times, it is better to pause than to continue with the unraveling of the problems.
About introverts is especially important
Introverters have a particularly deep need for silence. They do not always want to talk, even if they have something to say. They love silence and do not share with ease what they have come to mind. If one partner is an introvert and the other is not, then the extracteur must understand and not ask his partner for continuous springs of topics.
This does not mean your relationship is stagnant and you do nothing
Do not take silence this way. It is constructive and necessary. You do not have to talk about unnecessary tales just to feel as if your relationship is going harmonious. Not the flow of words does what it is, but the actions of the partners.

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