Facebook is affecting parents and children!

Facebook is affecting parents and children!
Lifecycle reporter
08 September 017, 14:43

Children now live with mobile phones - nowadays parents and parents complain. The image is symbolic. First light
Life does not go live without internet. Especially without social media. So many friends, followers, and how many posts; He is a strange world! In this age, children and adolescents are now in this artificial chat world. Parents forbid. But who listens to whom. Many parents have accepted. Similarly, there is also 'friendship' with the child in social media. But how does that friendship affect the real life of the 'artificial' world?

There are two positive and negative effects. Hold on Facebook. After the childhood friendship with the parents, the relationship between the two parties has changed. It is normal for parents to rise above what they are doing on Facebook, what they are watching, what they are posting. Because the child is in bad contact, do not want to be a parent. Because of this the use of Facebook may have to face the request of parents every day to children.
The tone of their relationship with their parents is not the same as before. One has to go through a sultry situation to both sides. What is the solution?
In countries like Bangladesh, the problem is even more. Parents of most children of the current generation have grown in some conservative environment. That is why they want to make their own children like that, just as they grew up. In some cases, they certainly give discounts. But they want to keep their own hands because of the good or bad decision of the child.Finding the causes of parents' anxieties about social media:

• Is not the child doing something that is harming him?
  Do not take the time to study?
• Is there any unexpected involvement?
• Who are the people who are mixed?
• By the means of this medium, the darkness is not moving in any world!
• What is the addiction to watching a site of nausea?
• Militant or terrorist groups will not fall in the balance?
• What is harming your health every day in front of the mobile eye?
• Books reading, drawing pictures, learning songs, debating ... Is the involvement of these creative works reduced?From this tension, parents are now friends with children on Facebook. Or secretly learning how to keep an eye on the child. In real life, children can not be given full independence, as well as not in social media. It is not possible for the parents to monitor the child for 24 hours in any place. In both real life or online, it is necessary to maintain balance between governance and independence. Although it is a very difficult task, where parents take a long time to build a relation with a child who is adolescent.
  One convenient aspect of information technology is that now parents can understand a lot of different postings on Facebook - what are they doing, what are they reading, or with whom? Many people are reluctant to take their parents to the Friendlist. Again, parents also forced the child to get the password for the child.
  Parental surveillance may sometimes cause children to become pregnant. Their straightforward talk - this is the direct intervention of personal life! Invitation to parents and friends in social media is a kind of trap! If they are involved in friendship, they will comment on our post, even if there is any doubt about it, will be pressurized on Facebook to get information about it.
  As a result, a new challenge has come about the guardian and the child, which was not before.There is no way to deny their own arguments. The child may not want parents to keep him in regular surveillance. Again parents do not want to, instead of developing themselves with the benefits of child technology, do harm.
  It is very important to keep balance here. Parents have the responsibility of making sure that the child can accept his parents as a friend in the social media like real life. Without being suspicious, it should be understood to understand the current situation. On the other hand, the child's responsibility is to ensure that the parents are not worried about the child in social media.
  In the real world, there is also a friendly relationship with parents, such as child, good for social. Most importantly, if someone postes a question about their parents in social media, they have a very positive response. It is similar to the post of the child. As a result, there is a positive environment. Now it is the responsibility of the two parties to use it.