Avoid getting caught in EGO relationships
To avoid getting caught into an ego relationship you must love yourself, just remember...
A rose is always more rose than the grass will ever be....
It happened to all of us...
There are no such strong magnetic forces that attract us such as being rejected....
Than the ego game begins... You hear the voice inside of you saying "Why doesn't he/she like me, is it something about my hair, is it the way I am dressed or what is the reason!?!?"
So many questions start to appear in your mind , trying to find an answer to why doesn't someone like you that it completely takes over all your thoughts and you focus only on one thing- to get that person to like you. You start playing a game of hard to get and grab the attention of that person and you are so happy and celebrating a small victory in your mind.
On the other side you have the same ego troubled person that you slowly get obsessed with.
Than you start a relationship with that ego person. It is based on a strong sexual attraction, jealousy games and lies.
Nobody is happy here, not even your ego....
You don't trust your partner, you think he is maybe cheating on you but instead of breaking up you start flirting with his friends, thinking "Oh, I will show him now."
And you never will cause an Ego overtaken person can never fall in love with you, not until he/she gets rid of his huge ego.
It's funny how we think that ego makes us love ourselves and in fact ego persons are the most insecure ones and with lowest self esteem.
That relationship ends the same way it started.
And nobody is hurt except ego, but you feel it like real pain....
The same way you thought you were in love.
Where there is strong sexual tension and jealousy games there is always some ego playing a game.
If you seek true love and don't want to be caught in such a bad relationship you must work on yourself to get rid of that dangerous ego that can drag you into it easily.
Value yourself for what you are inside not for how you look or what other people think of you and you will never get in trouble with an ego relationship.
And remember....
A rose is always more rose than the grass will ever be.
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Your ego will deceive you that you are in love. If you finally get the person that rejected you to fall in love you'll realise your mind was deceiving you. I have been there before. Just move on.
Yes, exactly... That is what I wrote about. Thank you for your comment !