Art of Forgiveness
There is need to learn the art of forgiveness so that you should be free all the time. This requires a great discipline in life. This is the key to human freedom and progress.
As we live in the world of conflict, quarrel and confrontations, you need the art of forgiveness. You need to forgive others. The amount of your forgiveness determines the amount or measure you are to receive.
Many a times, we hold grudges until death. This is an abnormal way of living a purposeful life. As you mature in life, you are bound to see greater challenges that require this discipline. Your fiancé or husband may hurt you, the people you love and trusted may betray you. Emotionally you are hurt but it pays to forgive.
The act of forgiveness may be difficult but when done, give as fresh air of joy. We have seen a father who raped her daughter, an uncle who mess her girl up and so on. How do you feel after you realized that you are hurt and it happened that the person, who did it, is known by you? No matter what might have taken place in your life, it may be impossible but the fact remains, you must forgive.
The act of forgiveness I’m talking about is not forming friendship with those who offended or abused you, no! But to forgive them. Go and erase it off.
forgiveness is a gift that will make you to erase off the hate within and stop living a life of torture and pain.
I really sympathize with those traumatized in life. It may be a case of rape, kidnap or murder, the act may call for revenge. The truth is that as you continue to hold the actions in mind, you are been destroyed further. The revenge would surely eat up your soul. It will affect your peace, healthiness and make you miserable. All you may be feeling is only revenge and revenge, and this may welcome self pity and finally suicide when not controlled.
Seriously, forgiveness has so many benefits;
It helps you to be healthy and your self-worth will be maintained.
It helps you to have peace of mind and increase your vale
It speaks opposite of cowardice and helps you to maintain your dignity.
In all, I urge you to learn the art of forgiveness in all things. Remember when you seek revenge, you are doing yourself more harm than good.
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Sometimes its so difficult to forgive, but give it a try, you will not regret it. There is this peace it gibes that pride can not give you. Good post @setapart
As you said its not easy but its so necessary. Thanks for reading.
The only prison we have the key to is our mind.
Why lock people up there?
Free someone,free yourself,forgive.
Nice post @setapart
i wonder why its so hard for people, though humans are so different but forgiveness is a necessity.