Can you accept your lover hiding his rich?
I will try to answer this question by putting myself in the shoes of someone meeting a new person. So, we meet, spend time together, and enjoy talking to each other, share the same sense of humor, and have similar personalities, so we continue getting to know one another. After some time, we both realize that this relationship is heading in a romantic direction. At that point, the other person tells me the truth about their wealth. For me, this is completely acceptable, and I would continue the relationship. Why?
We need to look at the kind of world we live in. The driving force of this world is money. We live on it. Thanks to money, we can buy a house, food, and a car. We can pay for healthcare and a good education – and I could go on endlessly.
In addition, the consumerism of today imposes a vision on us where our worth is dependent on how much we own, and to own, we need money. Moreover, there are both good and bad people in this world, and we never know who we will encounter. Have you heard of the term "gold digger"? This term describes a person who stays in a relationship solely for material gain.
As a well-off person, I wouldn’t want to end up with someone who cares about my money rather than me. I completely understand that wealthy individuals need to be cautious about whom they date, especially if they’re considering a romantic relationship and building a future with that person.
So, if telling the truth about their wealth a bit later than at the very beginning is their way of filtering out potential partners who are only interested in money or other material things and not genuine feelings, I’m okay with that.
