DO ACTIVITIES THAT MAKE US HAPPY

in Writing & Reviews2 years ago

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Someone once told me that I was bound by disability. And it is said that if you are tied up like that, you will be annihilated. The story of a colleague. Even though it's called severe disability, if you think about it, I've never been attached to disability. I remember writing about it in another article, but one day when I opened my eyes and woke up, I was disabled. I have never witnessed the joy of walking or running, or the miracle of getting up and measuring my height every day. My body is only me, and I am only me. So, there is no time for despair or depression.

What you can do is chase and dig into the causes of incompetence for no reason, and just live each day instead of lamenting. Just that. I'm just trying to think of things to be happy in the process. So, seniors, colleagues, and juniors tied up. Either way, they're still wrong.

I'm still fighting a bastard called a cripple. Initially, the war was a truce, and if it was extended, there was a tacit mercy, but this person did not have it. Grace threw them into the sea far away, and, as they did at the time of the first plague, raised their eyes up, exposed their ferocious teeth, and ran to life. As time went on, my fighting power had also dulled, and it was very difficult to defend against that momentum.

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Regardless of whether disability is gross or not, I try to create conditions for happiness every day. I love to see the warm rays of the sun pierce the center of my anus all morning, and I love to have a glass of rice to warm my tummy even if it's rough. A cup of mixed coffee is a huge delight in chilly weather, and if it's a day for two, I'm quite happy to applaud. It's also nice to be able to watch movies that were delayed due to writing, to be able to watch while empathizing with mothers who are like friends, and to find good songs while listening to songs and syncing. to your iPhone. Not only that, if a foreign actor gives me likes and heart comments to encourage my poor English, it will become the object of jealousy, not happiness.

And most importantly, I am happiest when I write my own work. Even more so than when you play a few tricks in your favorite game. So I can't get stuck. On the other hand, how often do you laugh at a topic without even looking it up? ha ha

Nonetheless, of course, long-term disability has taken a lot from me. In one word, 'freedom'

Then will I be happy? will you be unhappy? Really happy! Of course, if we want to judge the gains and losses in value between the things we enjoy and the things we lose, the proportion of losses is much greater. However, fortunately, God increased the frequency of thinking about profit and loss to 'benefit', so one could say he was happy.

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However, apart from that, it's not the disability itself that makes you angry, but the determination, or attitude to enjoy that happiness, as if taken for granted. Advising a person with a disability not to be bound by a disability is like telling a fish not to stay in the water. Courage is not only obtained through the passage of time, but must be accompanied by pain that seems to be being torn from flesh and bone.

The belief that you will do well in the future because you have done well in the past, and the attitude you have to accept because it is your destiny, is different from the first approach. It is a pity that the current social structure seems to be the last one, especially for people with disabilities. If you don't experience that pain, you don't know the other person or even your parents or siblings. Therefore, any kind of judgment should be avoided.

In fact, when people experience despair in life, they often blame themselves.

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