"SEC-S11W1: "The most embarrassing moment of my life as a kid or parent"
Greetings to everyone of @steemkidss Community |
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Today I am here to participate in the challenge Post Link
Before I move forward, let me Invite three friends;
to join the challenge, and for that, I would love to invite @stef1, @petface, and @lenegra2804
Now let me proceed to the questions:-
Have you ever been embarrassed? Tell us the scenario and how you felt. |
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No one in this universe can say that in their entire life;
they didn't even go through the embarrassment once!
Whether it is about children, adolescents, or old age;
in every phase of life, we can be a victim of embarrassment.
Before sharing my story, we have to apprehend the meaning of embarrassment.
It could be physical or mental.
When we are in the middle of a crowd and fall into a situation where the behavior or some incidents happen with our physical body or pieces of stuff that can be the reason for physical embarrassment;
which affects our brains, and thus it also becomes a mental embarrassment.
It was the wedding day of my cousin's brother, and his in-law's home is far away from his house.
The wedding time was a bit late at night.
I was top to bottom preparing myself to attend the wedding;
After reaching the banquet, I just stepped out of the car, and my brand-new shoe had torn!
How can I enter the hall with bare feet? It was late at night;
so there was no option to repair my shoe.
I requested one of my sisters to ask anyone;
if any shoe store or not because the place was new for me.
Luckily, one small shop was about to close, and my sister requested them to wait for a bit and went back to inform me.
I ran with bare feet and purchased a new shoe which was not at all going to my dress, but what to do? Something is better than nothing!
That day I was noy only physically but also mentally embarrassed.
Embarrassment never brings pleasure;
so the question of feelings is nonbinding.
Do you think you deserve the embarrassment, or should it have been someone else? |
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In my perspective, this question is void because no one desires or deserves to be embarrassed;
whether it is about myself or someone else.
The only discrepancy is embarrassment sometimes willfully and sometimes unknowingly.
What have you done to avoid such a scenario from reoccurring? |
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Let me share another story of my life to answer the above question. While working as the only female team leader;
I faced various challenges.
One male team leader always tried to flirt with me and often touched me, which I despised!
I warned him a couple of times the same.
One day, in the late evening, I was busy maintaining the employees;
Because the call volume was high.
Around 500 associates were working at a time;
and only five team leaders needed to manage them(Among four team leaders, I was the only female).
During checking the ACHT (Average call handling time)of employees;
that team leader again started cracking jokes and touched me again.
I got so furious! I turned back, pulled him by his neck, and pushed him into the back wall.
All employees stopped taking calls assistance managers rushed to glimpse the scenario;
but I held him in the same position and reminded him that we shouldn't test anyone's patience.
Everyone clutched my side because they had already noticed the same couple of times.
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I - Identifies.
M- Maintain manners.
I- Importance.
T- Tolerance.
We should know the meaning of limit, and in my perspective, that is:- |
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We should maintain the line of manners that identifies the importance of our tolerance.
Never give anyone that much lenience that they forget their limits.
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Thank you for the meaning full insights and particularly definition of LIMIT is well explained with each letter associated with the words. It is well established fact that there is negative effect on adolescent when physically assaulted by others.
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