Working with Toxic People..

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First of all this blog is not intended to destroy people or backbite. This is simply an expression of what I feel with this people and how to deal with them around you.

When we say toxic people this are the ones that naturally irritates you because of their action or what they say. There are many of them not only in your workplace but also in other places like school or in the neighborhood.But Im gonna talk about toxic people in my work place and how i dealt with them.

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First is what I call the Closed Circuit Television the Human CCTV, this person has her eyes on you. If the CCTV can record events or accidents on the recorded time, well he/ she can record every single detail of what you did and what you didn't do accurately. She can exactly give details of the said crime. Records them and immediately reports them to the authorities.

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Next is my very own WI-FI. WI-FI? Everywhere we go we are always inquiring if they have Wi-Fi around. Simply because we don't want to be outdated of the current events, we also wanna post the latest happening of our life. This person is like Wi-Fi, their signal in capturing incidents are always full bar. If Cyclops power is his laser eyes, well this person's power is their ear. It can capture every detail of what you said or did, so they won't be out of date,just like wi-fi it can be easily be detected because she is the source of stories.

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Third is Miss Perfect. I wanna sing with this next toxic person, I'm sorry I can't be perfect, Simple Plan's song entitled Perfect. She is Miss Goody two shoes
a person (almost always a female) who tries to be as good and "clean" as humanly possible. She is more often than not a staunch conservative and takes pride in her virginity and her practice of abstinence. She is definitely a God-fearing girl who always goes to church every Sunday, and indeed, based on the way she dresses, she looks like she's going to church every day. She cannot abide it when people cuss in front of her–the most extreme goody two shoeses faint when hearing foul language–and of course she would never consider smoking, drinking, doing drugs, or having any physical contact with a boy beyond holding hands or perhaps a kiss on the cheek. Can be nice but eventually begins to lecture you about your "sinful" lifestyle and just becomes a pest (from google). Exactly thats my third toxic person, bulls eye. And she's the only perfect person, she 's always right and takes pride of her being smart. Asks for respect and professionalism but does not show some. Idolized by everybody because of greatness but puts you down silently without destroying her image.

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Last one is Miss Minchin. For those who doesn't know Miss Minchin (Maria Minchin) is the main antagonist of Frances Hodgson Burnett's novella A Little Princess. She is the the headmistress of seminary for young girls in London. She is greedy and cruel, shows kindness only when she can gain by it, and regularly abuses her sister Amelia, and her maidservant Becky (from google). She always notice your mistakes but she does the same thing. Implements something but the first to violate them. Does something good but complains doing them. Insults you behind your back and gains pride whenever she destroys someone.

Toxic right? but I don't hate them. I actually am thankful for having them in my life. Because this people I am challenged to do better and prove that I am not what they think I am. Hating them will just add burden to my life, so instead of keeping grudges to this kind of people shower them with kindness. Or if Worse comes to worst, disengage. Nothing's better than being separated to this kind of people.

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DISENGAGE is the Key! ;)

exactly..whahah

But how? Lisud mn i disengage usahay oi :D

ignore them.. whahaha

nkarelate ka sa mga toxic?whahaha

Oo... they are just everywhere... so I need to detoxify

Dealing with toxic people is something most of us face at some point, whether at work, with friends, or even in family. It’s exhausting because their behavior, manipulation, constant negativity, or disrespect, can slowly chip away at your confidence and peace of mind. I’ve found that recognizing the traits early helps a lot. Learning to set boundaries and not engage in their drama is key, though it’s easier said than done. For a clear breakdown of what toxic traits look like and how they can affect relationships, I found this guide really helpful here Understanding this makes it easier to protect yourself without feeling guilty. It’s about keeping your own well-being intact while navigating interactions carefully, and remembering that some people simply aren’t worth your emotional energy.

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