How to Deal With a Narcissist - Be Very Careful Whom You Call a Narcissist

The best way to deal with a Narcissist is to be Very Careful Whom You Call. If you follow these tips you will have a much better chance at being able to deal with him or her. This article gives you some very good advice that can help you in this endeavor.

When dealing with a Narcissist you must be aware of your boundaries and understand the consequences of crossing them. Narcissists are masters at playing the victim. They are good at convincing others that they are the victim and they do not have any control over their lives. It can be very difficult to keep the lines of communication open with a Narcissist when he or she is accusing you of not liking you, or when they are telling you that they are the only one who can control your emotions or that they are in control of your entire life.

When you start talking about how they are the victim, you are opening the doors for them to take advantage of you. Your comments will make it easier for them to convince you to do things for them which they will then tell you are going to make you happy, such as giving up alcohol or drugs. You must also know your boundaries so that you will know what you will and won't do in a relationship with a Narcissist.

If you start ignoring your partner, it is likely that he or she will start thinking you are weak and will start using manipulation on you, such as making you feel guilty about your past behavior, and manipulating you into letting them do whatever they want. This is the perfect time for you to say no. Once again, Narcissists will use their victim status to manipulate you. For instance, if you say that you will think about it later, he or she might say something like "well, you always have those excuses". This is another way of showing that you don't respect yourself enough to make an informed decision without his or her influence.

If you start acting afraid of your Narcissist and constantly trying to avoid them, you will soon find yourself isolated from everyone in the world. They can get their revenge by isolating you from other friends and family members. They may also try to force you to give them your personal information or to blackmail you. When this happens you need to find support and seek help immediately.

If your relationship with a Narcissist is already getting out of hand, you may be tempted to leave him or her and find someone who will not put you through all of this. However, that can be a very bad move and can end up doing you more harm than good.

A Narcissist is very good at turning others against you, so if you start turning them against each other, he or she can use this against you in court. It is highly unlikely that the courts will side with you if you continue to be the bad guy. Instead you want to seek the counsel of a professional who specializes in Narcissistic personality disorder.


If you truly want to deal with a Narcissist, make sure that you remain calm and remain in control. Remember that even the slightest of disagreements can turn into very serious ones and you have to be extremely careful what you say to them, especially in front of others. Be very careful in what you say to a Narcissist and never give them a reason to turn against you.