Siblings - the special relationship

Those who don't have a sibling will not understand the bond that is shared between children's of the same parents. They fight and they make up. They want to go away from each other, but end up missing each other terribly. It was this feeling that I wanted my son to experience and that made me plan my second child.

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Having a sibling is great. I and my brother literally fought like cats and dogs. Shouted and hitting each other was a normal thing. The loud cries didn't bother our neighbors for they were very used to it. Things have changed and we both are grown ups. He works in a different city and we rarely meet, but whenever I need to fight, he is always available.

My elder son tells me that he was happy alone and having a brother would have been the last thing that he wanted in life. But, scold his brother and he would be the first one to wipe the tear off his eyes. I can feel the love and that reminds me of my brother.

My brother and I are 4 years apart. I am the elder one, but he is or actually pretends to be the mature one. He is a multi Tasker and can balance things well while I am a lazy ass.

Sibling love is great, nothing can replace it. The emotional bonding that I have with my brother is something that I cannot have with even my sons. My friends who are single kids to their parents often boast about how comfortable life was for them and they never had to share their parents or any other things with anyone, but I personally think that they missed this amazing bond that could only develop with a sibling.

If I have a next life, I would want the same brother again whom I can hit and then shout and cry like a victim 😂.