Progressing In Change
There is one thing that remains fairly constant and that is "change." It does not matter how you try to stop it, change will always be inevitable. What you can do is to initiate the kind of change you want and not wishing to stop change entirely. As humans, one of the things that expressly show your maturity is how you respond to changes. It is worthy to note that how you respond to certain situations will often hold more importance than the situations themselves.
Change is not a once-and-for-all event but it is more of a once-and-again event. That is, you may not have a choice against when a change will occur, you only have a choice of how you will respond to it. The truth is, sometimes, changes are often contended against because it is natural for the human mind to have reservations for what it had never experienced. This is why, sometimes, it appears as if the change is negative because the mind is already negatively biased about it.
When something happens, there will always be a bright side of it that you can channel your energy on, not the dark side of it. More so, you also need to focus on the changes that happen on the inside more than the ones that happen around you. It is worthy to note that it is a sum total of the changes within that give birth to the changes in the environment.
Furthermore, you do not have to wait for things to just happen on their own - you may not like as they will happen. You will need to initiate the kind of change that you desire, so that you will not be at the mercies of the result of someone else's change. A point will come in your life when you will realize that changes occur as a result of the actions of people. As long as people act, changes will be inevitable. So it will be worthwhile to also put up your own actions to cause the kind of change you want.
The inevitability of change is certain because it is a constant that is known to humankind. You cannot just decide to stop change from happening, you can only choose to respond differently to it. Just the way you cannot stop revolution but you can only choose if you will be part of it or to exclude yourself from it. Sailors have understood the fact that they cannot stop the storm from coming. What they can do as Sailor is to direct the sail with the power of the storm.
In the same way, the changes that come to you can become a tool and instrument to take you to a higher place in life. Your response to change is not a function of the change itself but it is a result of who you are made of. If you have ever had the opportunity to read about the Eagle, you will know that the same windy storm that other birds are scared of is what the Eagle rides on. So while other birds are afraid, the Eagle only needs to leverage on it and spread the wings to soar. This is to let you know that what becomes of you in the face of changes is as a result of how you are built.
Conclusively, it will be worthwhile for you to concentrate more on building up yourself. By this, you will not be scared of any change that comes to you but you will turn them into allies and leverage on them to ascend higher.
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