How to stop Spending Time you don’t have, doing things you don’t want to do with people you don’t like
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How much of your life do you spend pleasing people?
Turns out, a lot!
After reading a review of Sarah Knight’s The Life-Changing Magic of Not Giving a Fuck, i couldn't agree less that i must live on my own terms and i feel like sharing the few things i learnt with you.
Here today , i'm going to share two of the rules in my own language.
#1 Rule: Don’t give a Fuck! I repeat Don't Give a Fuck
Most times you worry too much about what others say about what you do, what you wear, how you look or where you go.
How long can you continue to do that?
As long as it makes you happy, safe for you and it’s harmless to anyone around you, there is no reason why you should hold back on things that make you happy. Ask yourself who gives a Fuck the next time you want to step out in your ragged Jean or cropped up tops, just be sure you fit whatever the occasion is. You don’t want to be sacked by a boss just because you appear in a short jean shirt dress on a Monday morning, lol.
#2 Live your own LIFE
A lot of people are living for other people; they are not living for themselves. It is suicidal and limiting to want to relate to every expectation of people from you. They can have their expectations no doubt, but it is your right to meet them or not and whether or not you do, those people are entitled to their own opinion.
That's it for this Thursday Morning which happens to be the first of February
So, I wish all February born Steemians a jolly February. As the days of your month is short, so shall be the days of your struggling
Cheers!!!!