Lesson at the beach- Fambond

Yesterday inspite the gloomy weather me and my family manage to go at Bahia Beach Resort and enjoy the water and the food they serve.

image from cebu-bluewaters.com
We arrived their 10:30 in the morning, me my husband and our three children (kuya carl 4yrs old, ate sofia 2yrs old and the new member of the family our superman Clark who just turned 1month last friday). We pay for the entrance fee and get inside the beach. The Resort is loaded with customers and there were many kids enjoying the beach (considering its weekend). As soon as we reach the cottage Carl and Sofia requested to change their swimming attire for they want to get into the water right away. Since our outing is for our kids to enjoy so we let them go into the water with their father of course watching them. And me left in the cottage with Clark.

After arranging our stuff and ordering our food I realize we're lacking something then I told my husband to buy at the supermarket leaving our kids alone in the water and me just watching them in a distance since I was in our cottage with Clark.

Minutes after my husband left I found this man (a family man, he seem to be a father) who's watching over my little girl sofia and he never left. Me being puzzled and confused I left the cottage and decided to get my little sofia off from the water.

When I reached the pool the man in his anger confronted the girl in front of me (the girl is about to get sofia) thinking she is Sofia's mother.

the man: ayaw kuno nag biyae imong anak mam. Lawm bya dri unya ug ma unsa na imong bata??
the girl: dili mani akoang anak
the man: imo man nang pasagdan mao rang usa. Kagamay pa man ana

the concern man confronted the wrong girl who he had mistakenly think the mother of my child telling her not to left the baby "sofia" unattended in the water for its deep and "Sofia" the baby might get drown she's so little,,keep an eye of her, will you? And the concern girl in shocked and the only thing she said is that "She's not my daughter sir".

I then easily get Sofia with much guilt and conscience. I ask for patience/sorry about what happen and say thank you for the concern telling them I'm the mother of Sofia, with so much shame we easily go back in the cottage.

I realized a thing and get some lesson. Even though its a shame on me (what the concern man does) I still come to learn a thing which is not to leave my girl unattended for her safety and I didn't feel any kind of anger for the man 'coz I fully understand him and I know I was blessed that day through him and make me learn a thing.

I as Sofia's mother know her capacity as a child that's why im at ease leaving her enjoying the water and watching her in far 'coz I know that she wont go far and stay just right there enjoying the water but the concern man who bursts his anger seeing a little girl unattended dont know that thing and even he doesn't know Sofia that's why I understand him.

Inspite what happen there we still enjoy the beach, the water, the food and everything. Around 2pm we left the resort. So much for our bonding of a fambond saturday. Happiness in the family is important and so was the safety of everybody. Lets be reminded with that everyday. Thanks for dropping by fellows.Hope you'll appreciate this. Bless Sunday everyone.