Steem engagement challenge-S10/W3| I do believe marriages are made in heaven.

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Hello Everyone
This is @robin42from #Bangladesh

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Hello dear friends how are you all? Hope you all are doing well by the grace of Almighty Allah. I am also very well with the grace of Allah through your prayers. Today I am here with contest entry post. Steemit Engagement Challenge Season 10 is ongoing with great contests every week. I would like to thank Incredible India for organizing such a beautiful competition. I am all ready to participate in this contest with great pleasure so let's begin.

Do you believe marriages are made in heaven? Share your opinion.

I definitely believe that marriage is made in heaven. Everything happens by the command of Almighty Allah. Our birth, death, marriage, everything belongs to Allah Ta'ala. Marriage is an important matter for any person. Marriage is a matter where two minds have to match, as well as be on each other's side. As a Muslim I believe that Almighty Allah is the owner of everything. If we get married with whom we can live well, we will get married with who can understand me well and it is already written from heaven. For every man there is a match who will marry whom.

Which marriage do you prefer, arranged or love? Why?

I respect all marriages, but I prefer love marriages. Because when we love and marry, we already have a good understanding between ourselves. Be aware of each other. It doesn't matter who likes or dislikes. Due to which if they get married, they have more chances of having a happy family. I think that if you marry for love, you can share everything with your wife like a friend.

I am not married yet but want to marry for love. I have seen in reality that people who love and get married have a very beautiful life. Being in a relationship for a long time knows each other's strengths and weaknesses. And at that time there is nothing to say secret about each other. Because of this, the foundation of the relationship is already strong.

We think about how we will spend the rest of our lives together after marriage. But if the marriage is for love then there is no need to worry about this. Because the person we love is already known to us. Apart from this, it is already known how to handle each other. Besides, the feeling of spending the whole life with the person of your choice is really wonderful.

According to you what is the definition of a happy married life?

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According to me, one of the means of happiness in married life is to love each other from the heart. As a result of marriage, there is nothing to say about themselves, what both have. Just as the husband should take care of his wife, the wife should also take care of her husband.

Also giving each other physical and mental peace. Only then will there be happiness in married life. In reality, those married foreheads are happy in which they are present. I think it is our duty to keep ourselves as well as our life partner happy all the time. The most important thing is to have a good understanding between each other if you want to have a happy married life.

Share some reasons behind the increase in mental distance and separations.

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There are many reasons for emotional distance and divorce that I myself see a lot. People get married to spend their whole lives with each other. At one point, they try to increase the family. As their family grows, the value focus shifts to the new baby. And at this time we make more mistakes. We should give time to the child as well as to the spouse. Many times, if the partner is unable to lead, distrust of the other is born, resulting in a marriage breakup. Now I will tell some solutions.

• Keep good communication among yourselves because it makes love for each other more. And if it doesn't, it does the opposite.

• Giving enough time to life partner. Also, I think it is important to have respect for each other.

• Finding your own mistakes first, then solving them. Hope to consider your own fault before looking at someone else's fault.

• Most of today's families are breaking up due to illicit relationships i.e. Parikia. So be aware of ourselves so that we do not make this mistake.

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People cannot live alone. He has to mix with other people to survive. Finally, it is important for everyone to have their own person. With whom he can share all his conversations, he will be physically and mentally happy from him. If there is faith, trust and most of all love for each other then married life will be happy.

I am inviting my steemian friends @kouba01 @pelon53 @msharif @ripon0630 @patjewell @radjasalman to in the participate in the competition.

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