When the mood "no"
In our society there is some pitifully squeamish attitude towards people who are not satisfied with something in life, complain, but do not change anything.
A lot of people ask for advice or just pour out their souls about their plight, and they hear mostly rudeness. If you live with an alcoholic \ vicious mother-in-law \ work with a silly boss-tyrant, etc., it means your choice.
Apathy Depression
There are many myths why people live in such conditions and do not change anything.
- Secondary benefit.
If you have such a life, then you like it. Somewhere in the depths of the subconscious there sits a small creature that literally beats in ecstasy, when the alcoholic husband rushes behind you with an ax.
- Children's complexes.
Yes, they rule our lives. What kind of parents gave us luggage, with those folder and mummy suitcases, we come to the threshold of adulthood. Of course, of course, everyone who disposes of this stuff.
The brain in addition, such education ... if they do not use, it begins to be lazy too. You do not use some of the usual ways (a series of synapses)? The brain will be rebuilt. He will destroy them, something that is not in work should be recycled.
Do not use the positive reinforcement system (when you have done some work, then the dopamine is injected into the limb for a sense of pleasure)? So she starts to sink slowly. Until the end, of course, it will not resolve, but the brain uses a part of the synapses and receptors.
I had too many problems with my mother-in-law. Our conflict deepened throughout the years. And you know what - I solved the problem by deciding to migrate to another country. Since I know that, everything is calmer than ever for me :)