My first post on steemit !

Hello everyone,

I'm delighted to join this community. Allow me to briefly introduce myself: my name is Red, I'm Moroccan, and I've been passionate about writing for many years. I've always been fascinated by the power of words to inform, inspire and entertain. Even though I'm a computer developer, writing has always been my deepest passion. I've always found immense satisfaction in sharing my ideas.

With this first publication, I'd like to offer you a glimpse of what drives me and what you can expect from my contributions to this community. I'm going to talk a little about an important topic entitled: "The regret of others is not necessary for our progress!".

Thank you for your warm welcome and your interest in my future articles. Don't hesitate to share your comments, suggestions and ideas. I'm looking forward to starting this adventure with you.

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Article : "The regret of others is not necessary for our progress !"

You know, friends, there's something that comes up a lot, I think you may have felt it in your life. It's human. When there's a break-up, not necessarily in love, but perhaps in friendship, or when we're sure of something, we're in this state of questioning. Because I've often been asked this question: is the person going to regret it? I hope it hurts. I hope I'm not here today to hear you say "don't expect the other person to hurt you". That's not the speech. The speech is ask yourself: why do you want him to regret? It's over, your friendship, your relationship is over.

Why do you want them to regret? If you want him or her to regret, it's because, as far as I'm concerned, the job wasn't done properly. Of course, we're all human and we all want to be recognized for what we're worth. That's the thing, and that's the answer, I think. That's why we hope they regret it, that she regrets it. It's to say to yourself "I hope I'll be recognized for my true worth and that it'll be too late for him or her to get me back or come back to my company".

So that's the question. That's what's different, that deep down, you're very interested. Deep down, you're still interested in the person's life, since they still carry weight in your life. You hope you're still participating in their life, in their regret, in their sadness, in their thoughts. When something is finished, infinitely, it's finished. And the better you get, and the more you build your life, the more there won't be the idea of the other in your head. There won't be the idea of "I hope he regrets". I hope you even say to yourself "I hope he pulls through, it's his life in the end".

It shouldn't have any impact on you. And that's what we have to try to build at home. It's this pattern of life in which I worry about my progress, what's happened with my life. I had a cross, but an intelligent one. Not a cross because I suck and I hate and I'm pissed off. No, a cross that puts his life in his hands, and mine in mine, whether he regrets it or not. In a way, I've done the necessary work to get better.

I even wish you no regrets. Where I am, perhaps with my current entourage, there are no regrets, we're fine. It's when you're hurting that you need the pain of the person who hurt you to feel better. And when you're well, it doesn't matter.

Thanks for reading !