DON'T CHANGE YOUR PERSONALITY IMPROVE IT.

I would like to start my story with simple quote ''DON'T CHANGE YOUR PERSONALITY IMPROVE IT". Now question is what does it mean, here's another saying "People are who they are, they never change". You are born with unique and special personality, and changing it is next to impossible. After reading several self help books I am now trying to help people who are going through the time where I was once.
So, its about the girl I used to love a lot , lets call her "fairy"(because unknowingly she changed my life).I met this girl in 2016, We were great enemies of each other when we met, neither she nor I liked each other, situation with us was always like 'how I can make her look bad or what should I do to make her feel terrible ' and she does the same. But, as time passed both of us fell for each other, and now begins the love story, our affair lasted for a year maybe and we broke up and the reason was so terrific, there was an ugly fight but some of her words stabbed my heart deeply and I was left out of senses. She said in her words 'your are self oriented person ','I feel threatened near you', 'I cant trust the person like you ' and many more ugly things, I was like lost in my world for months after that fight, I cried long nights, tried to get her back for months, but after that I realized the need for change, at this point of my life I didn't know that I cant change myself, all I can do is improve for better and make my life purposeful, but being a heart broken nerd I started to attend several sessions of different public speakers, I took reading as habit till now I have read 45 books and counting ,the quote that I made after reading several books "person learns from life experiences but books teach how to take those experiences in positive ways to grows" for example: after knowing thoughts of so many authors I learned to see thing positively, 5 years ago I use to find help of others to do my tasks, I was like please God send some fairy to solve this problem for me and guess what God sent one in form of my Girlfriend who when left forced me to think of my present situation and become better in my version and now whenever life throws a problem to my face I see opportunity in disguise and grab it without any hesitation , for example: I never use to write blogs like this but some hidden force gave me confidence to write and share what I have gone through and teach people that do not waste time in sobbing for someone who has gone forever, its rule of life that people come and go.
All I have to say that become the person this world has never seen before it sounds difficult but with consistent efforts on yourself you can be at infinite level of spirituality, humanity and intelligence. and with all this follows the health, wealth, good relationship and superior life. live the life KING SIZE and to become king you have to be more practical and logical.
love to all readers.
and I congratulate myself for adopting habit of writing blogs.