Life becomes easy if you know your boundaries!

in #oc7 years ago

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Setting the line between how much we can and can't is not easy. But putting a boundary around us is necessary. It may sound that I'm asking to be a coward or not explore the world. But it's not actually that. It's a way to allow us choosing 'resistance' which is not good for us.

It's okay to be clueless about our boundaries and how we can set that, in the early years of life. But if you consider yourself mature, then I would say you must know what you are doing, how much you are allowing yourself and how self-aware you are.

And, those boundaries are not just mental but we should have some physical boundaries.

For me, self-awareness is the biggest thing which can help us understand what is not good for us, why we choose certain things, how much we should allow us, what limit we can set for us.

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And, when it comes to relationships; setting a boundary is a must. don't choose to share every single thing. Having some boundaries can enhance respect also. At least that's what I believe.

Explore the world, enjoy in your own way, love every bit of it but know what is good for you and what's not. And set some boundaries to make it easy when it comes to making decisions.

THANKS FOR YOUR LOVE AND SUPPORT

Much Love

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Hmm... This actually impacted my life. I felt motivated and I hope to start developing that new sense if feeling of setting boundaries.

But what can you say about the perception of other people towards you when you set boundaries to some things? Like how can one go about what people will start thinking or saying about someone after deciding to set boundaries?

To be honest, I also concerned about what people will say. But now it doesn't really matter. And I believe, if you can establish your thoughts and points strongly, people will buy it.
Don't take much stress thinking about what others will think.
Thanks :)

Thanks for the great reply... I will put what you've written into practice

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