What do you in a situation whereby, your partner quits on you whenever you two have a misunderstanding ?

in #love7 years ago (edited)

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Misunderstanding is a common thing in any relationship. As we are human, we are emotions. But we have to have the ability to catch up the relation again with our love and communication. If both of these gets absent in two partners then the relationship will not run smoothly for this ovious reason. 

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If your partner is someone who doesn't take the first step to communicate or quit on you, the it is you who have to take the big steps. The best thing to do in this situation is-'talk with the person.'

Only communication and discussion can make it clear what is going wrong and what measures should be taken next to avoid it. I know sometime it become very hard to get out from all the ego and talk with the other. And it is also distrubing to be the only person repeatedly who comes to talk. But we have to understand there is no other way to fix the relationship other than this. 

Another important step can be taken- "Give each other some time and then discuss" Don't get mad, don't show your anger. Just take some time to cooldown and talk to each other.

You have to let your partner know how hurtful it is for you when he quits on you and stop communicationg. How you wnat yourself to be treated and how better the situation could be handled can also be discussed. 

Let the ego come out and have a talk with each other. Make a better undertanding strategy so that you can know what you both have to do in such cases. Don't give up on him, it's some people's nature. Just give the person time and discuss about the way out. 

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