Reward Your Children

In some ways reward actions, not traits. This is especially useful when you need a quick pick me up after a hard day and are looking for something to cheer up or comfort you.


When you give someone an action such as "good job!" or "You're welcome!" this can really help them and show them that they are appreciated.

If you give people an action and they do something good, you should congratulate them for it and say "that was great!". Don't just use the actions as a reward, but make sure that you actually feel pleased by the act of kindness. It really will work best if you let the person know that you appreciate them doing this to you.

A really great way to reward actions is to offer them something small that they can use to get a quick pick me ups in a pinch. This can be as easy as a coffee, but also a chocolate bar, or any sort of treat.

If you are a parent, you may have noticed that your child often needs a pick me ups and sometimes it is quite difficult to get them what they want, especially when they have so many things to do. It is a very common problem, so why not try offering them a quick pick me ups in the future.

The more you can reward them for the actions and behaviors they are showing, the easier it will be to get their attention when they are misbehaving. There are some great toys which can provide a lot of attention for a quick pick me ups.

When you are not rewarding the actions or behaviors you should always let them know that you are unhappy with them. Even if they don't behave this way, you should let them know that they are upsetting you and the way that they are acting could be frustrating you would like them to behave a little better.

Remember that a lot of people get rewarded for bad behavior and don't even realize it until the next day. So make sure that you are giving rewards consistently and this will help you get to know your children and their moods. A well timed reward will also ensure that they learn that what they are doing is OK.

As you can see, there are many ways to reward your kids for their actions. However, here is one of my favorite ways to reward your kids for being good.

What you want to do is set a reward schedule for your kids. You can do this by having them choose a special treat each time that they do something that is good for them. You can use this to reward for a lot of things that are negative such as begging, yelling or being naughty in front of you. You can also use this to help them learn a little social skills such as helping others with things around the house, or doing the dishes etc.

What you want to do when you are using this reward is to always go to the same place where they are behaving. So if your child is always picking their nose or is the same spot every time they get up from bed and if they are always shouting at the TV, then just go to the same place when that happens and offer them a quick pick me up a treat. Make sure you are not going to the same spot every time because it will take a little time for them to get used to it, but once they understand this will take them time to get used to it.

The more you can show your kids that you are happy with their actions, the more likely they will try to be good. You need to make it clear that they can't expect rewards for anything that is bad, they should try to be good instead.


The best thing to remember is to reward only what you want and not what you don't. You will end up with a more rewarding relationship and if they want something, they will try to get it for themselves and this will help reinforce your goals.